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Reply #182 MelahJanda's post
tak hensem langsung yang....ko cuba bayangkan berus jamban tu pakai cermin mata....lebih kurang la tu.
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Reply #184 MelahJanda's post
aku sekadar tumpang gembira je nengok ankel gani tu bahagia....kalau nanti dia kena beduk ngan laki awek dia tu pun aku tumpang simpati je
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Reply #164 meow_tompok's post
dia dh insaf kot...tu yg tak terjawab soalan aku...
tp aku cume nk tahu and take as a lesson...byk lagi mende aku kene bljr nih... |
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Reply #188 gilagila2's post
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gg2, kan dah kena marah.. tu la ckp siang tgk2.. ckp malam bisik2.. nak ckp dgn mr gani pakai baby suit yaa.. . |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 4-12-2007 01:51 AM 
ko nihhh...cam x biasa jekkk......aku duluk2 nak ngorat GF aku pung aku buat2 terlanggar dia sampai terabur buku dia kat tepi tangga......pastu konon2 tolong kutip buku pastu terpegang ta ...
bing setakat tolong pungut buku dan dpt no. phone ajekan 
si bukak cita memacam dia dapat, jangan dia paksa nak dapat sudah. |
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Gue jadi secretary Melah pulak malam ni |
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...basically yang dapat aku pelajari atau amik iktibar dari citer si gani is that 90% of extramarital affairs terjadi kerana isteri rasa kurang disayangi dan kurang diappreciate oleh suami...
...from his stories...most of the women yang dia slept with telah bersuami dan confided in him that they didnt get the love or attention yang dorang thot dorang deserved...not so much becos of financial problems...cos...rata2...pompan yang dia slept with are from families that have good financial stability...
...like ive mentioned before...pple dont get into an affair for no rhyme and reasons...especially so for married women...there must have been factors that contributed to these affairs...and true enuff...feeling underappreciated...feeling unloved...feeling as if the spark is gone...nie semua adalah the causative factors...
...pabila seorang isteri diabaikan oleh suaminya...the need to restore their self esteem rises...the need to affirm their sensuality becomes all the more important to them...semacam ego booster gitu....cos u see...orang pompan nie sebenarnya sangat2 mendambakan intimacy...they crave for it...bukan setakat sex saja ok...but the need to be touched...dibelai...didampingi...diromos2 oleh suaminya...heh....nie semua membuat pompan tu rasa lebih connected to their hubby...and secara automatic...dianya akan lebih connected dan committed to their marriage...tapi...pabila suami sendiri gagal tuk memberikan the attention and love needed...thats when these wives start to stray...mencarik someone yang dapat memberikan pada mereka apa yang suami mereka gagal memberikan pada mereka...kasih dan belaian yang mereka dahagakan selama ini....
...kehadiran lelaki seperti gani is like a prayer come true to all these wives...he is there to fill in the vacuum in their heart...he is there to make their fantasy into reality...he is there to make them happy and feel good...he is there to tell them that they are sexy...beautiful...and most of all...to tell them that they are wanted...
...nak salahkan lelaki seperti gani??...nehhhh...i dont think that is fair...cos...macam kita selalu cakap...it takes two to tango...kalau tak dilayan...takkan menjadi jugak bila diayat...so rasanya theres no need to blame others for the mistakes yang kita dah buat...lagik pon...kalau nak carik kesilapan di atas sesuatu perkara tu...kita rujuk atau cariklah silap from within our ownself...kata orang...muhasabah diri kita dulu sebelum kita point fingers to others...
...simply put...i would just say that i believe nie semua actually terpulang pada pendirian individu tersebut...their personalities...and their perceptions on what marriage and relationship is all about...to me...it is all about respecting your other half...your love ones...very often u can hear and read that pple keep on uttering words of love...love poems...but...in actual fact...they are not being faithful to their love ones...they cheat...they lie...they sleep with other pple...having mistresses here and there...and some even got married without their wives knowledge...
...so....tak perlu kita pening2kan kepala kita mencarik sapa yang patut to shoulder the blame...cos takkan ada penyudahnya....heh...takkan game until kita sama2 agree and acknowledge that each and everyone of us ada silap masing2...masing2 hilang pegangan dan arah tujuan hingga terpesong jauh...
...like ive said before.....pple just dont get into an affair for no rhyme or reason....mesti ada sebab2 yang menjerumuskan mereka ke dalam situasi ini...the feeling of boredom...depressed and anger...lethal combination nie...which exposes u to find the thing that can make u feel good about yourselves from someone and somewhere else...
...when u feel that no one cares about u...and when u feel that your other hap doesnt seems to care and pay attention to u any longer...u tend to feel that u are not being love by them...
...internet chatrooms and forums...these are the places where unexpected liason can happen...no...u never want it to happen...neither u thought and expect that u got the audacity to do all these...not in a million years...but...hey...pple say shiit happen...and for all u know...u are being sucked into this hell hole...nak kluar from this hell hole???...for what??...when it makes u feel so damn good...so damn appreciated by some other person...
...it is only when reality sets in that u realise u are in a mess...deep shiit i tell u...and if u manage to get out from it...bertaubat...then good for u...but u are still left with a big question...to tell or not to tell??...if u were to tell...what would be the consequences??...are u prepared to face that consequences???...kalau u choose not to tell...then u have to live with that guilt feeling of yours for life...which i promise u will torment your sanity on and off...
...but...for those yang dah sedar tapi masih berada di dalamnya...moga2 mereka akan mendapat rahmat dan kekuatan untuk kluar daripada lembah yang menghinakan diri mereka tu...
...whatever it is...no matter what they have done...dont we ever think lesser of them...cos...we are not tested by Him like what He has given to them...and we have no idea what it is like to be in that situation...
...however...after all that ive said...it is basically your iman dan akal yang akan menentukan whether ko OK atau pon ko KO...heh...
...ps...ntah brapa kali dah aku cut and paste benda nie...
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while a person understands that he/she is guilty, the need to find who bears a higher blame or the initial guilt will always be there. it is so that once determined that the blame/guilt does not lie on him/her (pun intended he he he), his/her conscience (or should it be ego?) is soothed or even, justified. or he/she can then convince himself/herself that he/she is the victim, instead.
that's human pscyhe 101. |
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Reply #199 Gemukkkkkkk's post
agree... thats human nature... to defy human nature such as this, that person need a strong willpower and the acceptance of free will as per bestowed by God..  |
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Reply #199 Gemukkkkkkk's post
edit: double post
[ Last edited by SleepyFish at 5-12-2007 09:47 AM ] |
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Post time 4-12-2007 03:15 PM
