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ni kalau dah kawin esok tt kena bersedia mental dan fizikal melayan kerenah husband yg sgt2 cerewet  , masakla tt bukan nk takut2kan tapi dah tau dah mcmna perangai dia, ni jenis lelaki yg nk semua benda dari A-Z nak ada depan mata ni |
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belum kahwin dah macam tu, kalo dah kahwin nanti, macam mana la nasib kau TT.. |
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Gedik n dominan n selfish n tak reti nk bertolak ansur n acah2 bagus sgt bakal laki ko sis..klo kawen siap sedia la utk makan ati iya kalo ko jnis hat pegang konsep asal berlaki tkde masalah..kwen je.slmt pngntin baru in advance iya |
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Sorry girl but I have to say this. You have met "Stupid Selfish Bastard". For how long you have to entertain his ego and ludicrous act? Get rid of him as soon as you can. |
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ataupun dia ada girl lain so dia jadi selfish utk tt
dalam masa ni dia pun menilai
mana satu lebih baik |
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dlm perhubungan, especially alam perkahwinan nak kena ada give and take...give and take ni tak semestinya dlm konsep 50-50..or win-win or adil...someone must sacrifice something in order to make the relationship stable...kena pandai jaga perasaan sendiri, makan hati is normal in any relationship...there is no perfect solution to a problem...
dlm hidup sometimes kena belajar memendam rasa, even though we dont like it so much...that is life...so the best thing to do is to discuss with him, lay it on the table...bincang dgn dier what his likes and dislikes, and what your likes and dislikes...
jgn ikut kan sangat kata2 forumer, sikit2 nak clash, sikit2 nak end the relationship...it goes to show most of the advice here comes from immature people...you are an adult, treat your partner as such and get to a common ground...
good luck to you... |
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Selfish... bossy...
Makan hati berulam jantung ler...
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Post time 17-7-2017 09:50 AM
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Thats why like one of the forummer kat atas cakap, 7 years being wasted and I have to start everything again.
Dia taklah selfish macam dictator. Bf aku ni dia memang pandai ambil hati family and kawan2 aku. Dia selalu hantar macam2 ke rumah aku even bila aku takde kat rumah. Anak2 buah aku pon suka dia. Pernah je aku sebut depan mama or adik aku and even friends. 'Tia rasa nak cari orang lain yang older la. Rasa tak yakin nak kahwin dengan Z' . Then diorang akan bising la. 'Nak cari laki macamana lagi? Dia dah baik sangat. Apa lagi tak cukup? Tia ni tak bersyukur la.' Even kawan baik aku sendiri cakap 'kalau ko taknak Z bagi kat aku'. Z ni pun ok aje bukan lah jenis marah2 and dia suka buat surprises. Always send me flowers, chocolates and teddy bear kat office. Let me describe his quality first to be fair. Z ni dari segi agama ok sangat. Sekolah agama and can speaks arabic fluently. Dia ni can be categorized as tall dark handsome. Muka melayu la bukan kpop. Kerja dan gaji pun stabil. Selalu takde kat malaysia, kerja dia selalu dekat luar malaysia. And a family type man.
Actually bila aku sit and think about it rationally, berapa percent kepastian yang bila aku berkenalan dengan orang lain perangai and attitude nya lebih elok ? Sebab selama 7 years dia tak penah cheated on me, non smokers, and ade future planning in life. Itu salah satu sebab aku masih bertahan and pilih dia dulu masa zaman universiti. And plus aku tak pernah cerita keburukan dia pada kawan2 dan family aku sebab aku taknak diorang hilang respect pada dia. Untuk item no 1 dan no 2 kami dah communicate and discuss semalam. Selepas aku tunjuk dia screenshot gambar2 orang kahwin pakai baju melayu, elok aje. Dengan syarat dia nak pakai tanjak with keris Untuk item no 2 dia setuju untuk kami gilir2. Which means from isnin-rabu we can stay at my parents house dkt je dgn tmpt kerja aku. Dia akan ulang alik. While hari lain, khamis n jumaat je aku ulang alik. What say you guys? |
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Once for all sit down and trash it out between the two of you
Nmpk mcm he is in control but as a woman and future wife you need
To state your wants and wishes so as to have a harmony life as husband and wife
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Edited by Levespa at 17-7-2017 01:57 AM
bincang apa tak puas hati..dia kena ada tolak ansur.. kalau tak u better run girl |
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perhubungan ni kena tolak ansur..
so u kena la berbincang dengan dia..
tak boleh la asyik u je mengalah..
apa pun, jangan risau..
forum sentiasa terbuka untuk u mengadu lagi..
tapi lepas kawin, sila ke board FD  |
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baru je baca malam tadi, akhbar pancaindera bulan lepas (hehehe...baru sempat baca)
those 4 characteristics tu kalau ada salah satunya pada lelaki, kta sipencerita (pengalaman hidup dia)
diia nasihkan kepada yang belum berkahwin, baik jgn teruskan hubungan.
Pengalaman dia bercinta dan berkahwin dengan lelaki yg dicintainya itu berakhir dengan penceraian
kerana sikap2 tersebut.
Kesian jugak aku baca kisah perempuan tu.
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betul.
7 tahun bercinta bukan tentu dapat menjamin kebahagiaan bila sudah berkahwin nanti.
don't worry, find another guy.
u ada better job and better salary pun.
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aku dah baca beberapa posting.
ni la salah satu posting yg aku baca, bagi positif response.
kalau baik sampai ke sudah, tak pe
kekadang diawal2 mmg nampak manis semua
terpulang la kepada author....
nampak author mmg terlalu sygkan bf dia
apa kata dari sisi lain bf tu, cuba ceritakan kat famili author...
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sukalara replied at 17-7-2017 09:50 AM
Thats why like one of the forummer kat atas cakap, 7 years being wasted and I have to start everythi ...
Forumer yg akan kawen dgn tunang hg ker?
Think what you want & communicate to him. |
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Edited by spankee_fili at 17-7-2017 10:16 AM
selfish jugak deknon oi...
kalau meols, memang takleh tahan lama dengan perangai gitu..
muda lagi uols, mungkin nanti dia akan makin matang..
tapi bab beli rumah tu, hmmm...sangat selfish..
kalau uols rasa boleh bertolak ansur dengan perangai dia, kuatkan semangat dan proceed dengan majlis..
kalau rasa macam was was, take a step back..lagipun baru nak merisik, bukan nak kahwin dah..
better sakit sekarang daripada seumur hidup sakit hati noks..
sementara masih umur muda, saham tengah tinggi orang kata, buatlah pilihan yang terbaik..
jangan terlalu attached dengan kenangan sampai uols tak dapat buat keputusan yang bijak untuk masa depan.. |
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sukalara replied at 17-7-2017 12:59 AM
Assalamualaikum kawan2,
Nak mintak pendapat sikit ni. Harap dapatlah beri idea bernas and sharin ...
Org ckp kucing menyebabkn susah mengandung
Penah dgr tak
Tp sudut saintifik x taula  |
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Xde tolak ansur... sblm kawen dh nmpak |
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Edited by melinda_kerr at 17-7-2017 11:32 AM
sukalara replied at 17-7-2017 09:50 AM
Thats why like one of the forummer kat atas cakap, 7 years being wasted and I have to start everythi ...
Girl, i rasakan you dah tahu semua jawapan kot apa hati you nak. Awalnya you cerita his bad sides then alih- alih you cerita segala mcm kebaikan dia pula. So i rasa all the answer is in your hands.  |
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Belum kawin dah selfish  |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 17-7-2017 09:16 AM
