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munchkin posted on 18-10-2014 06:33 AM 
Betul tu. Once dah get along boleh jadi best.
Sometimes nak privacy jugak. Tapi kalau dah sela ...
my mendiang mentua tak camtu.
opposite kot.. kalau part shopping,
this family got talent mengshopping
dan money.. so keluar dengan dorang always fun..
tulis camni buat me realise that keluar dengan
dorang selalu sebenarnya buat bila dorang dah tiada...
kehilangan terasa...
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faraway1 posted on 18-10-2014 07:47 PM
my mendiang mentua tak camtu.
opposite kot.. kalau part shopping,
Yelah kan far? Kalau dah best tu bila dah tiada kita mesti terasa. Sedih pulak.
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faraway1 posted on 18-10-2014 07:19 PM
well bila kita sebut mentua..
oh coz segala benda nampak lain di mata dia...
i tengok her daughter pun takda la make up beria. pale je pun i tengok. i pulak yg nak dikomen nya. then i told my bf i hate makeup, will only apply kalau ada function, kalau pegi kerja pun very minimal. u tak suka boleh blah. since then takde la bring up lg pasal ni. my bf takut i marah kot, kalau i marah mmg i ignore dia berminggu2
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jump_jumper posted on 18-10-2014 09:12 AM
i tengok her daughter pun takda la make up beria. pale je pun i tengok. i pulak yg nak dikomen nya ...
kenapa me rasa u sebenarnya
bukan dalam safe zone relationship...
emmm
lelaki yang mencintai sepenuh hati takkan
kecoh kalau u tak bermake up pun...
going to be 9 years bulan depan..
not even one time my husband brought that kind of subjek...
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jump_jumper posted on 18-10-2014 10:04 PM
Ciri2 tu dah ada pada his father, like he once asked my bf, ur gf tu suka splurge on handbags and ...
Oh wow. Hmmm i tot jenis yg keluar tapi tak komen apa2. Hmmm kalau cam tu susah sikit. Depa ni ingat bila pompuan tu beli barang, nak tarah duit anak laki dia. Ada jenis cam tu. Tapi takleh lah generalize everybody cam tu and nak komen kenapa dia beli tu kenapa dia beli unless dia sendiri nampak anak dia swipe credit card depan dia. Perhaps maybe that's one reason why depa nak ngendeng nak ikut tengok everytime you keluar you beli apa since tukar tukar handbags and shoes (duit siapa yang kena spend). I just think lah.
Parents ni kadang ngan anak lepaki first tu dia control. Itu yg i tengok. Hmmm
sebab my friend tu gitu jugak. Bila dia nak beli mesti PIL komen itu ini. Rimas lah kan kalau ada je orang nak mengomen. Duit kita suka hati kitalah. Hehehe. He has no right to actually nak kata nak control your finances. Duit wife is duit wife, husband tak leh sentuh. Duit husband kena bagi nafkah makan, minum, pakaian berpatutan pada isteri.
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jump_jumper posted on 18-10-2014 10:12 PM
i tengok her daughter pun takda la make up beria. pale je pun i tengok. i pulak yg nak dikomen nya ...
I think kan, dia jenis listens to the family comment lah. Hal handbags, shoes, makeup brought up by his parents.
Oh wow, cam remote control pulak bila i baca you stories. Apa yg parents dia cakap dia cakap balik kat you. As if agreeing to his parents points. Kalau dia tak agree, he could have defended you dgn kata her money, biarlah dia. Bukan dia tak kerja. I like her makeupless. Cam tu.
dia takde his own opinion eh. Kalau dia sikit sebanyak sokong you ok lagi.
sikit sikit komen or kalau you keluar ada je nak dikomen oleh parents dia. I can feel you actually. Kalau keluar happy happy without any comments tu i think tahan lagi. Tapi kalau dah ada ciri ciri tu then you kena weigh jugak you nak terima the whole family 'drama' later on.
how about if he asks you out, you just decline. If that is ok with you. Cakaplah, takpelah you keluarlah dengan your parents and spend time with them. I ada kerja nak buat. Buatlah few times tengok. Am sure you will miss him. Tapi nak tengok he misses you tak. Kalau nak keluar je, cakap tak nak, it's ok you keluarlah dengan your parents. Tapi kena berlakon and sound as if takde apa2.
Tapi koser sangatlah kalau everytime keluar nak bawak parents dia. Kadang bila nak barang tu, kita nak jugaklah tanya opinion bf kita. Kalau parents dia ada kat situ, nanti depa pikir kita nak gesek duit anak dia pulak. Dilema betullah.
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munchkin posted on 19-10-2014 07:58 AM
I think kan, dia jenis listens to the family comment lah. Hal handbags, shoes, makeup brought up b ...
He is that sort of guy. He always tells me how he idolizes his father so much, katanya his father sangat bijak in investing, and his family always talk about properties, look out for new houses, most of the time itu aje topic nya, which is good lah, cuma kadang2 rasa boring. Macam father dia nak cakap dr beli all shoes and handbags baik simpan and invest in property. bagus lah tu but tak boleh la nak dictate i kan, apa yg boleh beli and tak.
Actually dah penah declined 3 weekends in a row, i cakap ada hal with my mom, pastu dia ada la complained, i cakap my mom will always be no1 and you will come later. Pastu ada jugak dia cakap his parents cakap i sombong sbb dah taknak join his family outing. Malas nak layan hahahah. and selama 3 weeks tak jumpa tu i takda lah rindu sgt pun. dia je cakap i dah ada someone else ke. dia kata i changed so much.
Next week his parents invite me for dinner katanya nak discuss about our marriage. But honestly i mmg tak ready nak kahwin lagi and told him this, but ni still nak paksa2 jugak. Dari hal dating dah jadi hal marriage pulak. heheheh
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faraway1 posted on 18-10-2014 11:00 PM
kenapa me rasa u sebenarnya
bukan dalam safe zone relationship...
safe or not i pun tak tahu hahah. but youre lucky lah your husband cintai you seadanya. my bf ni i tahu his taste back then sexy girl, makeup sakan, and im nothing like that. Now he said he's a changed man, dia tak kisah dah. katanya lah. but actually i mcm tak kisah pun kalau tak jadi dengan dia. kadang tu i rasa i like him just because he's a smart guy with good looks and good future, not more than that.
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tiramisuu posted on 19-10-2014 11:51 AM
itu susah bila libat famili..diorg akan anggap couple tu dah dlm mindset nk kawin
no mo ...
tu la baru setahun je pun kenal, nak la kenal lebih dalam lagi kan. dan kalau boleh i nak lepaskan adik i habis study dulu, 2 tahun lagi, i tanggung dia study, taknak nanti dah kawen jadi mcm2 pulak.
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jump_jumper posted on 19-10-2014 11:57 AM
tu la baru setahun je pun kenal, nak la kenal lebih dalam lagi kan. dan kalau boleh i nak lepaskan ...
bila mak ayah dia cakap ko make up less..suka berhandbag..pe dia reply kat mak ayah dia?..sebelum dia bgthu ko
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Sila break...byk plak cekadak aih...
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Innrukia posted on 19-10-2014 12:31 PM
Sila break...byk plak cekadak aih...
hahahah ada penah terfikir nak break tp nak cakap apa kak? sbb tak suka parents you ikut dating dan komen pasal i?
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tiramisuu posted on 19-10-2014 12:08 PM
bila mak ayah dia cakap ko make up less..suka berhandbag..pe dia reply kat mak ayah dia?..sebelum ...
malas tanya sbb hati tengah panas masa tu. tp mcm takdenye defend i sbb dia pun suka i bermakeup, dan penah cakap u boleh shopping sebulan sekali je. ada i kesah? bukan duit ko pun.
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jump_jumper posted on 19-10-2014 12:40 PM
hahahah ada penah terfikir nak break tp nak cakap apa kak? sbb tak suka parents you ikut dating da ...
Kena bg alasan ker?
Hang tau x sbb per majority lelaki blah dendiam?
Sbb malas pikir alasan ler.... break up ni, bgla alasan apapun org susah nk terima...
zaman skrg kna selfish...
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Innrukia posted on 19-10-2014 12:48 PM
Kena bg alasan ker?
Hang tau x sbb per majority lelaki blah dendiam?
Sbb malas pikir alasan ler. ...
make sense jugak. tp kalau dia carik i mintak reason why mcm mana? sure dia carik punya dah lah tau rumah, office smua kt mana
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Innrukia posted on 19-10-2014 12:58 PM
Jwp jer bukan salah u, salah i
u terlalu baik utk i
cakap je i tak mampu utk capai standar yg ditetapkn oleh mak ayah u
Last edited by tiramisuu on 19-10-2014 01:07 PM
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tiramisuu posted on 19-10-2014 01:05 PM
cakap je i tak mampu utk capai standar yg ditetapkn oleh mak ayah u
Alasan tu x ok psl kait dgn makpak dia dah.....kang jd kes lain...
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Innrukia posted on 19-10-2014 01:14 PM
Alasan tu x ok psl kait dgn makpak dia dah.....kang jd kes lain...
btl jgk kan..kena tunjuk mcm tu antara tt dgn bf je..x yah kait mak ayah
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 18-10-2014 07:47 PM
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