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jump_jumper posted on 19-10-2014 11:00 AM
He is that sort of guy. He always tells me how he idolizes his father so much, katanya his father ...
I see. Mmg ada some people cam tu. Looking at the positive side, mmg ada betul apa his father cakap but dia tak leh dictate how others nak spend their money. Sometimes you can talk about properties and such tapi kalau jadi standard topic then of courselah boring. Unless beli properties tu tiap tiap minggu kan hahaha.
Oh so dah pernah buatlah. Reti pulak dia nak terasa. Habis tu u terasa dia tak ambil tahu pulak. Sepatutnya ada check n balance tanya apa perasaan u bukan redah je.
Pasal u tak keluar dgn depa apa kena mengena parents dia nak komen u sombong pulak. Dah tiap kali kuar dating bawak parents dua sekali and those 3 weeks in a row tak kuar terus cop u sombong?
Wow, so u nak kena ikut their expectations baru depa tak komen. Well, letih lah kalau nak kena asik ikut cakap depa. So how about your family pulak. Your side tak leh ada outing nak kena ikut derang je memanjang. Hmmm
Well kena terus terang dgn ur bf that u r not ready. Patut nya biarlah ur bf bincang ngan u dulu. Ni terus nak suruh u dtg bincang psl marriage. Havent they got any respect for u at all. Cuba kalau u decline or kata nanti dulu. Ntah apa pulak komen. Hmmm Last edited by munchkin on 19-10-2014 01:57 PM
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jump_jumper posted on 18-10-2014 10:08 PM
safe or not i pun tak tahu hahah. but youre lucky lah your husband cintai you seadanya. my bf ni i ...
Well logik nya itu sepatutnya bila mencintai, bukan U cintakan seseorang U kena ubah orang tu jadi lain.
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munchkin posted on 18-10-2014 06:58 PM 
I think kan, dia jenis listens to the family comment lah. Hal handbags, shoes, makeup brought up b ...
see this one reason me suka keluar dengan my mentua.
me tak perlu tanya my husband pasal nak cakap beli barang,
me cakap aje dengan my mil, kecik tapak tangan, kot satu kedai dia belikan 
this my mentua nya perangai, masa anak pompuan dia bercerai,
satu rumah baru siap perkakas dia belikan..
dan me sebenarnya ada hate dan love relationship ngan mentua
tapi biarkan dia beli barang buat cam dia rasa dia berkuasa sebab cam me bergantung
ngan dia hahahha tapi sebenarnya win win situation... faham kan maksud me...
penting in the end of the day kami balik rumah memasing dengan happy tidak berkerut muka.
but kes me, kami dah kawin.. kalau belum tidak kot..
me segan |
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faraway1 posted on 19-10-2014 11:14 PM
see this one reason me suka keluar dengan my mentua.
me tak perlu tanya my husband pasal nak caka ...
PIL far jenis memahami gitu. certain PIL tak memahami, keluar RM2-3 beza pun dah komplen mengomel ngomel. contoh bila beli barang setakat beza RM2-RM3 ringgit dia expect kita travel ke area lain (kedai lain) untuk jimat. dia tak nampak kos parking/fuel etc tu dah melebihi harga barang yang nak dijimatkan (RM2-RM3 tu). gitulah ada setengah PIL gitu. kalau RM2-RM3 beza tapi nak beli dalam kuantiti banyak tu lain lah cerita, bolehlah travel ke tempat lain. hmmm macam macam ragam. |
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aku ni pun pesen angkut parent aku ke mana2  kalau date aku tak suka aku bawak parents, dia boleh blah sebab aku yg bayar bil everytime aku bawak parent aku. wiken kot. tak kuasa nak masak2. sebab kalau diberi pilihan antara bf dengan family, sah2 aku pilih family |
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ni macam ada petanda, lepas kawen pun akan kerap famly outing, which akan jd super annoying, coz sometimes u need ur me-time dgn partner gak.
so baik ko pk betul2 nak proceed hubungan ni. hahaha |
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Innrukia posted on 19-10-2014 12:58 PM
Jwp jer bukan salah u, salah i
u terlalu baik utk i
hahaha best2. cuma nya i tak ready lg nak dihencap
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tiramisuu posted on 19-10-2014 01:05 PM
cakap je i tak mampu utk capai standar yg ditetapkn oleh mak ayah u
hahaha tu lah memang rasa mcm tu. tinggi sangat expectation parents mu itu
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munchkin posted on 19-10-2014 01:41 PM
I see. Mmg ada some people cam tu. Looking at the positive side, mmg ada betul apa his father ca ...
parents dia cakap kalau tak ready kawen ikat lah dulu. ikat2 pulak dah. so i told him this weekend i dont wanna see your parents. dont wanna talk about marriage with your parents. i dont believe in ikat2. i just wanna rest this weekend. then he did warn me, no matter what he is going to get married next year, be it with me, or without me.
in a way i feel lega jugak lah hehehehe.
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anakayam posted on 21-10-2014 03:51 PM
ni macam ada petanda, lepas kawen pun akan kerap famly outing, which akan jd super annoying, coz som ...
memang tengah pikir ni. Now i realised my problem bukan pasal parents dia ikut dating je, but banyak lagi hahahah
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Itulah namanya lelaki mitali! |
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jump_jumper posted on 21-10-2014 08:12 PM
memang tengah pikir ni. Now i realised my problem bukan pasal parents dia ikut dating je, but bany ...
sila la putus skang. hehehe serius. nanti ko menyesal x sudah :p
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jump_jumper posted on 21-10-2014 08:10 PM
parents dia cakap kalau tak ready kawen ikat lah dulu. ikat2 pulak dah. so i told him this weekend ...
nak jugak kawen next year. kritikal dah bf ko ni. so lebih baik ko angkat kaki 
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hurmmm... bahayanye bf uols TT.. bUkan takat bf ngeri, ngan mak pak die sama naik ngeri.. kawen ni bukan uols dgn bf je.. family skali.. skrg ni, x kawen lg pun.. bf n parent die dah try control u.. dgn ur money skali die nak control.. dah kau kenapeeeee... iols mmg pantang yg sebegini ye... esok kalo kawen entah ape lg nak atur utk kite.. blom ape2 kemain dah tunjuk belang... kalo bf TT tu gentlemen, die bgtau parent die, sukahati la u nak buat ape duit u.. mane blh masuk campur.. nyampah btol la...
nasihat i, x pyh la TT, melambak lg yg elok2, senonoh2 kat luar sane.. jgn TT nak judikan masa depan TT smpai ke tua dgn manusia mcm ni.. skrg masih ade pilihan lagi.... kalo dah kawen, mmg kena hadap je laaaaa jawabnye..
GOOD LUCK TT.. |
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Sori nk ckp aa
dlm islm, haram lelaki serta perempuan yang bkn muhrim keluar berdua-duaan. So saya rasa, dia bawa parents dia tu sebab itu kot.hihi
Bertuah you tt! Last edited by Esmiria on 25-10-2014 12:25 AM
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Sori nk ckp aa
dlm islm, haram lelaki serta perempuan yang bkn muhrim keluar berdua-duaan. So saya rasa, dia bawa parents dia tu sebab tak mahu apa-apa.
Bertuah you tt! |
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anakayam posted on 21-10-2014 02:51 AM
ni macam ada petanda, lepas kawen pun akan kerap famly outing, which akan jd super annoying, coz som ...
kenapa nk super annoying..
i love going out with my mentua..
even balik malaysia, mana mana me pegi mesti angkut my parent.
enjoy lah sementara bermentua beribubapa..
my mentua dedua dah meninggal..
my parent jauh.
sekarang hanya tinggal my husband and me berdua.
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jump_jumper posted on 19-10-2014 12:43 PM
malas tanya sbb hati tengah panas masa tu. tp mcm takdenye defend i sbb dia pun suka i bermakeup, ...
kan... bukan duit dia pun...!
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so all this while, he and his parents and his sister je yg evaluate you "from head to toe".... as if his family is all out perfect sgt nak evaluate2 u kan...
lain mcm je family dia ni..mcm paranoia pun ada...terlalu perfectionist pun ye gak... termasuk bab nak carik menantu... hihihi...
carik la family mertua yg rileks2 sudah... baik dan sempoi... your future husband should love u for who u r...
kau pun, apa kata kau jadi diri sendiri pulak lepas ni kan... tunjuk your true self dpn family dia... alang2 sebelum break tu kan... bila dating kau pale kan muka kau se-pale yg mungkin...pastu tiap2 kali keluar, tukar handbag baru...kau test tgk... kalau kau putus dgn dia pun kau takde hal kan..u got nothing to loose... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 19-10-2014 01:41 PM
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