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Edited by chaintea at 28-1-2015 05:17 AM
Nk handle lelaki ni mudah
1. Don't overthink
2. If u hv doubt kindly ask
Jgn pikir byk, byk soklan sila tanya terus...org pompuan suka berdialog sendrik...pehtu keputusan buat dr perspektif sendrik..x tanya pd org berkenaan...
So bertanya la dulu sebelum buat penilaian tambahan... |
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i pun pk nk stop..give his n me some time to think,,klu xd ap2, i nak move on..
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all da best....
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Jangan tunjuk sgt yg ko desperate .... Ko wat relaks aje......jgn jawab whatsapp dia biar 3 hari baru jawab, jangan mengharap relaks amik nafas panjang panjang dan hembus pelan pelan relaks... |
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mmg pun..skrg ni aku just let him be...xnk wassap aku terpulang, nk wassap pn terpulang ats diri dia..i don't care anymore...
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berdasarkan citer TT me rasa TT ni macam tarik tali....kejap nak,kejap tak....dia dah ckp khen nak amik TT jadi isteri + dia bukan jenis berkawan ngan pmpuan..betul la tu niat dia.....lagik satu dia nak kenal2 ngan family TT nak bwk family dia skali dah bagus la tu...nape TT nak plak dia bwk family...apa salahnya kalau dia bwk family....itu kira dah naik satu peringkat lagik...family dah saling mengenal..pastu bleh proceed apa2 plan pun...apa yg TT takut sgt ni? |
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aku rasa hati mamat tu dah sentap sikit sbb tt tolak dia nak bwk family. jd atas kebijaksanaan tt lah nak pujuk balik cmna. pujuk tp jgn nmpk terdesak.tt kena guna kreativiti dia sbb dia jer yg kenal mamat tu...
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itu larrrr sian mamat tu dah sungguh2.... siap nak bwk family lagik...tt plak jual mahal..me rasa mamat tu takmo dah kapel lelama,detin2...kenal2 family,terus tetap tarikh...terusss jalan...uhuhuhuhu...pepandai larrr ttnak pujuk balik....gud lak tt!
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mmg pada mulanya dia y beria2 nk going on next step but after a few months he's keep silent. wassap time pg, mlm pun belum tentu he reply my wassap..so what are me waiting for??i dont waste my time for some thing that i will regret later..kes ni sama mcm my ex bf sblm ni.. 5 tahun aku couple in the end is nothing and went to married the other woman...aku nak pujuk??mmg x laa...he with his life and ignoring me without any words...after this i not believe any man and dont want any commitment or married yet..for now... |
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umo braper ek ?..TT dan bf?..sbnrnya dah jumpa lom family memasing? dah try slow talk? |
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sy 26,bf 34 by this year...sy jer da jmpa famliy dia, kebetulan dia masuk hospital so parents n family da knal sy..dia blom knal parents sy tp adik2 sy dia da kenal...mak sy da tnya psl dia aritu..dia ckp dia ada mslh dgn adik dia n mak dia..mak dia sakit n xboley bangun tp dia ckp dah sembuh..then psl adik dia, dia xckp apa mslh n ckp segan nk share mslh adik dia tu dgn sy...then why must avoid me??tu y sy xphm, alasan dia, dia malu...dia pun ngaku dia da jarang nak contact sy..in the end dia ckp dia mintak sy tgu dia, then sy jwb sy xnk tgu dia, klu ada jodoh between us, aderla..klu tak de jodoh tu Allah lebih mengetahui, sy jwb mcmtu..then dah 2 ari senyap without any call and msg..sy msg dia tanya, sy salah ke? smpi pg ni senyap..sy xphm laa...i can't feel him now...dulu ok..currently sy xdpt nak phm dia..dia baik, baik sgt..tp bila ada problem je jd mcmni..org laen pun ada mslh jgak tp xkn la gf sndri pun xnak berckp..ok laa..sy cube try utk phm dia...sy bukak hati n pikiran sy seluas2 nya utk dia...still otak sy xboley nk digest..dia xd pmpuan laen..how long i must wait for him??that i can put my trust on him?sy pun xnak desak2 dia..follow the flow..sy ckup trauma dgn my ex bf dlu..ap y perlu sy buat?sy pernah buat silent treatment utk 3 ari, sy kalah n dia xd try to wassap me n so on...sy xdpt nak phm ati dia skrg...
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ni anggapan dan pendapat me jer okeh!takde kene mengena ngan keadaan sebenar
1. TT da ckp takmo tunggu,dia assume TT nak belah! so tunggu TT belah jer!
2. masalah mak sakit ,dah sembuh tapi adik dia plak..laki ke pompuan?....anggapan jer yek! klau laki penagih ker,pencuri ke smpi jadi kes polis...kalu pompuan...bunting ke,tak habis blajar ke dan yg seangkatan dgnnya...tu sbb dia malu!...ini anggapan je tau!dia takut TT/famili tak leh trima...hagaknyalah!
cuma skang ni TT bincang bebetul ...kalau bebetul nak ngan dia gak bagi jangkamasa larrr untuk tunggu dia, TT baru bru 26,bagi ler 2 tahun...sanggup ker?..kalu tak sanggup putus bebetul cara baik..
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ermm, y psl adik dia tu pun sy ada terpikir jgak, tp xnak la terus assume y negatif selagi xklua dr mulut dia..
then y first tu, kalau mcm tu, dia x sungguh2 la kan??should i waiting for him?actually sy ckp xnak tgu dia sbb nak tgk action dia jer, klu btol dia sunguh2 dia xkan mendiamkan diri kan?ke sy jer y pk mcm tu?sy pn xtw bape lama sanggup tgu dia..mcm ex bf dlu, tgu dia tiap2 taun ckp nak meminang after five years, dia nikah dgn org laen plak...so sy mgm xsgup nak frust lg, that's why sy ckp sy xnak tgu dia..
complicated laa...should i mendiamkan diri jgak or wassap dia??klu dia x respon mcmane??sy pun xsgup nak pikir klu btol2 dia tngalkan sy... |
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again pendapat peribadi jer
bukannya dia tak sungguh2 dengan TT tapi priority dia mungkin pd adik dia dulu kot!...lelaki ni tak leh multitasking dia tak leh pikir pasal TT,pasal mak,adik,kereta,keje bla2 serentak.....dia kene buat priority.....macam yg me ckp ..jumpa..tanya bebetul berapa lama dia nak TT tunggu....
and again jgn pikir dia ble baca fikiran TT nape xleh tgu dia....bagitau dia nape tak leh tgu dan brape lama TT sanggup tunggu ...lelaki takleh baca pikiran pompuan.......cakap apa yg TT risaukan,luahkan perasaan,bagitau dia apa TT rasa.....okeh?
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i will try ur suggestion, tp nak silent treatment dlu..hihiihihihi
thanks sis..
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Aiyo..aku rasa tt ni sedikit mendesak utk kawin..so bila bf ckp hold on,tt stress..btw,aku sokong juita ckp yg laki x leh multitasking..if health ngn adik dia ada masalah..n tu punca nk hold on,aku rasa ko pn kna pikir yg ko nk tunggu ke x..klau nk kawin sesgt,tinggal je la..klau ko rasa perangai dia ok,sanggup tunggu..tunggu..kekdg laki x suka share mslh sbb dia tau dgn share bkn blh settle..lagi satu,ko dh sound dia ckp x nk tunggu bagai..then knp ko expect nk call/msg mcm biasa plk lps tu? |
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ok..i will give his time..xtw la smpi bile...i xkan desak dia bagai lg...wlupun mula2 dia y nak nikah cepat2, bila i da btol2 ready, jd mcmni plak...sbr n redha jer laa...why i expect he to call or msg me??i just nk tgk kesungguhan dia jer..so, klu dia snyp je i mean nothing for him...at least pujuk i ke ap ke kan..but it ok...rite now i just nak move on, n not think abt it anymore...i just need some strength to face it... |
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nape asik nak tgu dia call? nape tak u call him instead?....TT kalu nak tgk kesungguhan dia tgk time dia takde masalah...rasanya masalah dia besar dr yg tt pikir sbb tu dia takleh ader gangguan laen...dia senyap sbb dia nak TT support dia ble dia ader masalah...dan TT pun tak buat apa2
since TT dah decide....bagi tau dia terus terang....putus biar cara elok2 |
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Edited by tiramisuu at 18-2-2015 09:49 AM
aiyoh..dlm tgh dia sibuk ngn mak x sihat..adik yg ada masalah..ko nk suruh dia pikir masalah jiwa ngajuk2 ko, main tarik tali? yea betol..dulu dia bersungguh tapi tt pn tau kan dulu x de masalah, skrg ni dia ada masalah famili..so takkan nk ignore semua tu dan teruskan perancangan kawin mcm xde masalah?
kejap ckp x sanggup kalau bf tinggal, kejap nk bagi dia masa, kejap nk tinggal kan dia, kejap nk suruh dia pujuk,kejap nk move on..tt..jgn jadi drama queen sgt..bagi masa..kalau aku la, aku akan diskus..ok suruh tunggu..sampai bila..brapa bulan? ko ckp nk tunggu tu, kena bagithu dia..karang dia ingt ko dh buang dia,dia pn move on..ko pun ternganga
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 28-1-2015 05:13 AM
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