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oh my babe.....how u handle nih??? i cant imagine how u hide
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tah lah..aku skg asyk gadoh jek gan bf aku ...ade je bnda gadoh....otw nk kawin tp tgh lagi mgumpul duit...
aku ni skg gadoh lg gan die..mcm da fadeup ...rasa nk ptus jek... |
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then move on cari lain!!!!
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Love is not for me..so i give up..haha..
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Love unexpected... dugaan to all no matter what status u r |
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Edited by hatikudus at 10-5-2016 03:34 PM
That's why aku stay single sampai skrg, besarkan anak2 je lah on my own. Aku taknak ada conflict of interest, dilema antara anak & partner. Lagipun mcm2 kes aku baca/dengar amat menakutkan. Walau ada few godaan aku tepis dgn berhemah...cewahhh! hahahah! Getting a new partner is only an option while tanggungjawap jaga anak2 tu is a must & amanah Allah. Life aku mmg sibuk & kurang masa nak fikir utk berkapel kapelan 
Cuma sbg manusia biasa, it's normal if we feel like to be in love & being loved by someone.
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Exactly babe, pso its tough at times when there is like a specific moment u feel like u need to be in love again. But i guess maturity will keep us cool sahaja and focus benda yg berfaedah. Aku pun takut baca all the stories yg bapak tiri dera anak bini dia...selisih!!!! Biarla aku besarkan anak aku and aku manjakan anak aku sorang.
Yes, lately ni aku ada minggle and went out with my ex bf and yes the vibes tu ada...aku xtau la dia kan so to avoid aku stop seeing him or text or anything yang yg buat aku communicate dgn dia. But yess i do think about him ...and lately ni banyak pulak org usha aku ni....rimas pun ya...the weird part makin ramai yg nak kenal makin kosong aku rasa ..maybe no feeling dah..
love love....it would be nice to be in love but is there a good men outhere? mcm xde je kan
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@mamijaa
any updates dear? |
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bila umur dah meningkat, kita dah biasa dgn lifestyle kita sekrg...amat susah utk kita berubah dan ikut rentak org...cinta memang cinta, tapi tulah, there are things I just cannot do...
I dah ada my own plan after pencen....things I wish to do etc....if the new option tak brapa menarik, I terpaksa decline...
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tapi babe, kau xde terpikir ke...esok kita dah tua kerepot and time tu anak kita semua dah bz dgn own life . and we being old and lonely or ni semua hanya mitos je...all in in mind 
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dah tua nanti kalu bole takmo sorang2, nakkan pasangan jugak...tapi kalu dah takde rezeki, nak wat camner kan...
Kitorg berbeza....dia suka bersosial, rajin gi kenduri or gath....aku tak suka, aku suka lepak umah...aku tak suka dipaksa gi kenduri or gath...nanti kalu aku takmo pergi, dia sentap plak...
Dia suka tetamu dtg umah, masak2 or layan tetamu or sedara mara bermlm kat umah...aku tak suka layan tetamu kecuali kalu raya, sedara mara tak pnh bermlm kat umah aku...sedara mara aku tak ramai mcm sedara mara dia....siblings aku semua dok dkt2, jd takde keperluan diorg nak bermlm kat umah aku.
Nanti kalu aku takmo layan sedara mara dia, sure dia akan sentap...baru suh beli coffee machine pun dah sentap, prefer wat air sendiri which nanti aku jadi kerja aku. Coffee 3 in 1 takmo...
Rumah aku lebih dkt dgn KL city centre dari umah dia, kalu dok umah dia aku kena adap jammed 2 jam gi balik kerja one way....dia tak suka dok condo, aku tak suka dok umah teres...
tu lah antara masalahnyer yg wat aku rasa...let go jerlah...next please...
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adoi..susah jugak ...ye aku faham aku faham maksud kau.
nanti kata kita cerewet or high expectation tp ni semua antara sebab2 yg buat hidup xbahagia bila kawen...compare being single ni ...buat je la apa nak buat. aku bila pikir point2 ni aku pun slow down...very hesitate nak cari
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yup...benda2 ni mungkin kecik sekrg, nanti lama2 akan jadi besar....so better avoid dari awal...
tgk lah nasib camner akan dtg....untung sabut timbul, untung batu tenggelam....haha
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me too single mum and do agree with u cuma tak nak menempuh gerbang perkahwinan buat masa ni |
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blackwidowbae posted on 14-4-2016 09:13 PM 
InsyaAllah amiinnnnnnnn
si duda dah buka bicara.
raya ke3 nak dtg umah utk b'temu family i.
kalo diizinkan, die nak tamatkan zaman duda akhir tahun nie.
tp hati i dah xde rs ape.
tibe2 jd tawar setawar tawarnye.
i ade rs xsedap. rs mcm i xsedia utk terima die.
smlm, i dok csi die. cr info ttg die.
finally segala rs yg i rasa (tawar hati) tu, i dah jumpe jwpnnye.
i xmo trskan.
i nak trskan hdp i dgn anak je dl wat mase nie.
rs lega sbb ape yg i cari, i jumpe dah jwpnnye. |
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eileen80 replied at 16-5-2016 05:12 PM
si duda dah buka bicara.
raya ke3 nak dtg umah utk b'temu family i.
kalo diizinkan, die nak tama ...
Dah pulak~ kenapa eileen oii~
jodoh yang baik jangan ditolak, nanti menjanda sampai mati, na'udzubillah~
tapi kalau tak baik tu tinggal jerr lerr~ buat haper merana utk kali kedua, dah buat solat istiqarah belum? Kalau belum better buat dulu, tgk hati berat ke mana~
eileen kan pakar csi, acer csi ex-wife dier tanya haper prob ex-hb dier ni sampai cerai berai~ a wise man once said to me, lelaki yang baik takkan sesekali ceraikan isteri dia, dia sbg suami patut boleh setelkan masalah rumahtangga tak perlu cerai pun~ fikir fikirkanlah~ |
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blackwidowbae replied at 16-5-2016 07:18 PM
Dah pulak~ kenapa eileen oii~
jodoh yang baik jangan ditolak, nanti menjanda sampai mati, na'ud ...
bini tuntut fasakh.
xblh trskan sbb ibu ex-wife xsuke kat die.
sbb keje swasta, xde mase dpn.
mak mertua nak menantu keje gomen.
lps iddah, ex-wife kawen dgn cikgu.
sekampung & sekerjaya dgn ex-wife.
i dah tawaq ati lah, mokcik.
xblh dah. dah wat sunat taubat.
dah wat istikharah jgk.
hati semakin tawaq... |
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eileen80 replied at 16-5-2016 07:37 PM
bini tuntut fasakh.
xblh trskan sbb ibu ex-wife xsuke kat die.
sbb keje swasta, xde mase dpn.
Kalau gitu sila move on to the next candidate ler eileen oii~buang masa eileen jerr nanti~
pergi ler try reg. Speed dating halal tuu~ Maner lerr tahukan~ janji usaha~ |
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