Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

True-X

time aku study mostly surrounded by boys.. ni kat opis nie pon.. aku sorg ker pompuan yg lain lelaki... secretary jer pompuan...

dah naik biase dah..

aku kekadng kene gak sexual harrasment... tp ntah le marah pon adegak... tp kekadnag klakar... nak buat aduan ker.. tp diorg nie kengkawan aku

kat mana mana ada sexual harrasment kan










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ifanonline

This is a very good article. read it.
Those who are still single may learn something from here.... Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage....

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.
She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to
her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all
seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are
good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with
your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. Infact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called
"falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you
were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the
natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls
become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not
always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's
idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every
relationship, but if you
think about your marriage, you will notice a
dramatic difference between the initial stage when
you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start
asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse
reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had,
you may begin to desire that experience with
someone else. This is when marriages breakdown.
People blame their
spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their
marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and
sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to
work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside
your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't
fall in love with someone else. You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in
the same situation a few years later. Because
(listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE
RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU
FOUND.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous
experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You
can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day
in and day out. That's why we have the __expression
"the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most
importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT
TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.
There are specific
things you can do (with or without your spouse) to
succeed with your marriage.


Just as there are physical laws of the universe
(such as gravity), there
are also laws for relationships. Just as the right
diet and exercise
program makes you physically stronger, certain
habits in your
relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's
a direct cause and
effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results
are predictable. ..you
can "make" love.


Love in marriage is indeed a "decision".. . Not just a feeling .

Hana_Hirokawa

yolah ...kalo setakat percakapan tu berpada2 ler , tp kalo sampai perbuatan tu mmg nak kena potong aaa owang2 yg tak reti hormat kaum lemah ni ..

ifanonline

It's been a while since i've written in this thread...busy dengan kerja...you need to work to get money right? Yeah, that's life, day in, day out...what to do...

Nuthin to jot down really since yesterday and i came across this article...did you people come across an article about 3G in Utusan Melayu? 3G consist of Gebu, Gempal and Gemuk...i'm not sure about you people...but i would like to be gebu but definitely not gempal or gemuk...

What can i say, some men like fat women...each of us has this pre-wired senses in our brain saying that this fat person is good for you, your soul mate,bla,bla,bla...i think it is not a matter of how fat you are, how chubby you are,etc...the question is that how healthy you are....

Some fat people are healthy and yet some skinny people does not neccessarily mean healthy people...but majority of fat people will potray unhealthy image about themselves...

You might say, "Who cares if i'm fat?"...true, nobody cares...but we are living in a society where we need each other...let say in a situation where you suddenly die of obesity...that means you die as one fat hippo or worst, one fat pig...who is going to bury your body? The living people right? But who is going to carry your fat dead body? For me, i would not want to carry your body because you neglect to take advice about your obesity when you were still alive...might as well we give your body to the tigers for breakfast!

Sometime we are selfish when we are still breathing the god given air...but when the time comes to meet your creator...you will know how ignorant you are towards other people and realise that you made a mistake....

ifanonline

Lama dah saya tak tulis pasal dating tips ni...well, i'm going to tell you guys or gals how to react about dinner dates...mcm biasa, mula2 both of u akan berjumpa for the first date...jadi, siapa akan belanja untuk dating pertama? Of coz the gentlemen will foot the bill for the first date...rarely will the ladies pay for the first date, that's fine...bersikap gentlemen katakan...

Ok, here comes the second date...by this time, both of u dah kenal antara satu sama lain and maybe would like to go to somewhere more interesting...who shall foot the bill? If the lady is genuinely interested in the guy, she will pay 50-50, sorang bayar separuh-separuh...

but if she still insist the guy pay for everything, the guy will suddenly bring up his guard at about 50%...i'm not saying the guy will not pay, but the air of uncertainty suddenly arises...fine, the guy pays for the second date...

Comes the third date, by this time, the lady should definitely foot the bill, if not, guys, be prepared to run as fast as the wind blows...the girl does not like you, is using you and you better make a quick exit...

that's all for now, till the next tip...

aries12

org laki yg pnh kapel byk kali,bole ke die brubh jd org yg setia?

lg satu,my bf ckp die syg sy..snggop buat ape saje utk sy...tp,bile die jnji,die xtepati...jnji2 die tu xde la besa sgt...but it mean a lot to me...cnthnye,die jnji nk topup kn,tbe2 die bole trlupe nk topupkn...logik ke alasan trlupe 2?kalo die sntiase igt kt sy,cmne die bole trlupe?am i rite?? pstu,die da byk kali jnji nk msg ngn sy smpi pkl 3/4 pg..tp die xtepati...nti mst die tido dlu...die ckp 'tertido'...kekdg sy sgt mara n kecik ati...tp bile sy trs trng kt die,die mntk maap...sy da byk kali maapkn die n brharap die brubh...sy xksh kalo die xjnji,tp mslhnye die da jnji dan die xtepati...da byk kali...kekdg sy rase da fed up...what should i do?atau org lelaki ni mmg cm2 ke?

ifanonline

hye aries,

problem yg awak hadapi sekarang adalah normal, awak kurang mendapat perhatian daripada si dia...i assume you have so much time in your hand, mesti u seorang student, am i right? jangan mengharapkan sangat janji2 orang yg tidak suka menepati janji...there must be a back plan so that u don't get annoyed easily when he breaks his promise...try and not to think about it so much and maybe you can get on with your daily routine...

U ADE LAGI EKK IFAN....STILL REMEMBER ME???

ifanonline

mcm ingat...dulu pakai nick ape?

  PartyPrincess as well....

mba

not every man like that dear

True-X

PROMISE/JANJI tuh besaaarrrrrrrr maknyenyer.... toooo big.. frust kl failed tunaikan

soo janganlah berjanji2 sgt..

juz trying....
i`m new here.

hi ifan....
hi evry1....

_hypo_lithium

allo..i nak tanyer nieh..about a fren of mine. adela sorg mamat nie salu mengadu kat i.die nie ade masalah ngn gurlfren die..opps:@  x-gf. act, diorg nie dh lama la couple..bercintan- cintun..dlm 4 years myb.pastu bile mamat nieh dh stable dia nak la masuk meminang awek die nie..pastukan,tibe2 ..awek die nieh g terima pinangan org laen..org tu pilihan family die.  ape lagik ..maka mamat nie frust la..sampai kata..diala org yg paling malang.  hihi..die nak jugaks kat x aweks die nieh..sbb, die tamo biarkan awek die kawen ngn org yg die tak cinta..tapi mamat nie yaitu kwn ak nie laks tak berani nak g jupe family gurl tu sbb ayah gurl tu sakit jantung   huhu...pastu sampai now la..tat guy still berharap n menunngu...ahahha   dlm kes nieh..nak tanyerla...ape patut kwn i nie buat??!!  :@

polaris_girlz

aku kecik ati sgt dgn pakwe aku....

ifanonline

Persoalannya, perlukah mempunyai duit yg mencukupi utk berkahwin? dalam keadaan kawau u tu, the best option is bertunang terlebih dahulu. He must have the guts to go and see the girls family and tell his intention.

From my opinion, the guy serba sedikit bersalah dalam situasi ini sebabnya:

1. Not brave enough.
2. Not brilliant enough.

mcm mana nak dpt gf dier balik? Simple, kawan awak tu kena offer something yg tidak ada pada lelaki yg ingin meminang perempuan tersebut...soal ape nak di offer. terpulang kpd kebijaksanaan kawan awak itu...

ifanonline

kenapa kecik ati ni?