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Page88 posted on 12-4-2013 02:25 AM 
Sorry to say lah but your friends are are all NO GOOD. Why do you keep friendship with people who ju ...
I absolutely agree with you, you are right...these people usually take advantage on other kindness.......... and of course the lesson should be learned...... 
part u cakap kalu kita nak pinjam kat diaorg , diaorg bagi tak...rasanya tak arr...tapi i cuma boleh confirm kat you yang org macam ni bila kita mintak tolong bukan mintak tolong pasal duit tapi mintak tolong pasal selain duit arr...jangan harap diaorg nak tolong..selalu akan bagi alasan beribu-ribu lemon....huhu..still want to call them as friends?...i don't think so... |
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Page88 posted on 12-4-2013 01:57 PM
That is why I never lend money or borrow......Humans are s*** they are selfish, stupid & heartless ...
you're welcome...
there was the truth in what you have said....that's why i agreed with you...
have a nice day too...
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aku pun sedang alami masalah ini
tak nak bagi pinjam ... terasa dihati takut gaks darah daging sendiri menderita
bagi pinjam ... dapat membantu ...tapi risau laks menyebabkan dia tak boleh berdikari |
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singajantan posted on 12-4-2013 05:55 PM
aku pun sedang alami masalah ini
tak nak bagi pinjam ... terasa dihati takut gaks darah daging se ...
Ia bukan masalah berdikari atau tidak but why do you want to give "others our own money"???
What is the guarantee that, that person will give us back our money & not run away after we have helped them???
"When people want something they are very nice, after getting what the wanted they will show their real character"
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Page88 posted on 12-4-2013 06:02 PM
Ia bukan masalah berdikari atau tidak but kenapa kita nak bagi "orang lain duit kami"???
What ...
yeap i know
tapi bila yg meminjam tuh orang yg ada hubungan rapat dengan kita ..memang sukar nak menolak esp bila mengenangkan ada orang lain yg mungkin menderita kalau dia tak dapat duit tuh
keras keras aku ...tapi bila membayangkan sampai anak yg kecil tak makan dsbnya tak sampai gaks hati
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Page88 posted on 12-4-2013 07:13 PM
Each man for his own
Thats what I believe in
Sorry....but I don't think you are selfish...I think you just being rationale...that's all... |
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Nezar posted on 15-4-2013 01:26 PM
Sorry....but I don't think you are selfish...I think you just being rationale...that's all...
Thanks
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kdg2 aku terfikir gak, aku bg pinjam nanti klu aku susah ada x org nk tlg?
aku ni jenis malu nk minta tlg org melainkan klu tpaksa, biasanyer klu
psl duit org leh bermasam muka, nanti x syok lak...aihh..serba salah
jadinyer.
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sindora1412 posted on 15-4-2013 03:42 PM
kdg2 aku terfikir gak, aku bg pinjam nanti klu aku susah ada x org nk tlg?
aku ni jenis malu nk min ...
khenn...
itulah yang aku takut2kan..
aku penah pinjam duit org dalam keadaan terdesak....time tu kat epot lcct, tertinggal flight...nak beli tket baru, hanya rm180 jer dalam tgn...si atm mesin pun bikin panas ati..rosak pulak time org nak kluarkan duit...
nasib ai pinjam duit org yang sama flight dgn ai..
turun jer ke destinasi, terus kluarkan duit...
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leylapple posted on 15-4-2013 03:56 PM
khenn...
itulah yang aku takut2kan..
bagusnya...memanglah kita harapkan bila kita bantu org...suatu hari nanti org akan bantu kita bila kita memerlukan pertolongan org lain....cuma dari pengalaman sendirik payah sangat org yg kita tlg akan bantu kita balik...apatah lagi bila time nak membayar...asyik bertangguh dan marah2 bila kita mintak duit balik....
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Page88 posted on 15-4-2013 03:19 PM
Thanks
you're welcome...i believe you never had encountered the problems like some of us here..... |
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Page88 posted on 16-4-2013 11:18 PM
I don't let such problems accure to me actually
See there's a difference of being N ...
.....page, I like your motto.......it could sound a little bit harsh but it is true...real good friends are so hard to find nowadays...but I still believe there are still good people out there...just it is hard to find one...especially when it involves money issues...huhu... |
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Nezar posted on 17-4-2013 08:46 AM
.....page, I like your motto.......it could sound a little bit harsh but it is true...real g ...
Tq for agreeing with me
See it's a Dog Eat Dog World now,
The toughest survive & the weak die
One must be tough, mean, selfish, cunning, heartless,etc
To be able to suvive in this world
Money is always an extremely sensetive topic, no matter what
Now days money is "EVERYTHING", even when we die also we need money
So when it comes to money people will do anything to get it & we must always be 1 huge step before anyone who wants to get our money
No one is going to come & save us, we have to save ourselves
So, ya at times also it's better to be Heartless than to be taken for granted
There are many ways to find a good friend:-
1. Make sure that person Keeps his/her word
2. Watch their behaviour when it comes to certain times(like with you, friends, around rich/poor people,etc)
3. Always use your "GUT INSTINCTS", coz most of the time out gut instincts is always right
4. Doesn't lie,cheat,steal,etc
5. Earns his/her own money & doesn't depend on his/her family/relatives/friends,etc |
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Page88 posted on 18-4-2013 07:25 PM
I have friends, but very few
I used to have so many friends but most of them just w ...
recent event was occurred yesterday......a friend asked me to lend her some money.....and i managed to get out of this situation as i just said i don't have extra cash...huhuhu......i won't give up my money anymore not even one penny...
btw..page, care to share your testing method with me?..hehehe... |
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Post time 12-4-2013 12:22 PM
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