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TIPS & PENGALAMAN APPROACH/TACKLE & ETC AWEK (MERGED WITH ALL)
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Reply 45# kaishi
aku rase mudah didekati tak bermakna tak jual mahal...kadang2 yg jual mahal tu lg senang nak di edjas dari yg senang approach  |
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Reply 50# AadiGoth
aku rasa PUA terlalu depending dengan frame dan gambit sebab venue diaorg mostly dekat club.
tight space, noisy dan crowded...window of escalation untuk full close depends dengan the first 5 minutes? so diaorg memang kena stick dgn frames diaorg...lagi2 yg mmg follower tegar Mystery, gambit ESP routine tu brape ratus kali dh aku tgk org buat...aku gelak je kdg2 dkt club tgk ade org approach dgn ESP routine tu...lame gile..but hell, it works wonder...
aku pun tak berapa prefer main dengan canned routines sebab it tends to get too repetitive
tapi one thing for sure...dhv dgn grounding mmg tak boleh pakai dgn awek malaysia... |
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Reply 52# VirginLady
virginlady...aku suka nama tu...bunyi dia agak strong, mcm ko nak bt statemet, i'm still a virgin, a lady and i'm proud...seolah-olah nak bgtau, don't play around with me if u don't want to get hurt...
eh betul ke interpretasi aku tu?...pandai2 je aku neh |
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Reply 58# putput
takpela..aku tanak carass line ko |
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Reply VirginLady
virginlady...aku suka nama tu...bunyi dia agak strong, mcm ko nak bt statemet, ...
cmf_king_kong Post at 5-5-2011 13:18 
pakar ko nie....pernah menjadik ke |
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Reply limau
dia ni pakar sebelam dan selepas kawin ni..untung sapa dapat
putput Post at 5-5-2011 14:49
gitu ceritanyer yek |
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Reply 60# limau
jadik ape? |
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ape lah susah sgt nk approach a girl. just go there, be yourself, and start a conversation....tu pun payah ke? |
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Reply 64# annehuda
memang tak susah nak approach girl, be yourself and start a conversation.
tapi berapa ramai yg berani? takut dimalukan? takut kena maki?
dan aku tak berapa sure part "be yourself" tu
sebab as we all know, 6 out of 10 malay guys that approach you are a potential as.shole |
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Reply 66# annehuda
oh i was quoting my friend  |
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Reply mbhcsf
tu hanya ayat contoh je...takdela aku nak approach guna ayat2 macam tu..mau berbui ...
cmf_king_kong Post at 5-5-2011 10:33 
i see...i got your point. hihihihi..mana tau sat gi org ambik / plagiat ayat tu |
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Reply 67# cmf_king_kong
be careful king_kong, probably almost 100% of malay man population would disagree with u... |
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Reply cmf_king_kong
be careful king_kong, probably almost 100% of malay man population wo ...
annehuda Post at 5-5-2011 16:45
disagree with what? |
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Reply 68# mbhcsf
takpela..biarla diaorg amik...aku halalkan |
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disagree with what?
cmf_king_kong Post at 5-5-2011 16:50 
the a**hole part of course....u know malay man...they would probably say 'kerana kerbau seekor habis suma terpalit lumpur' |
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Post Last Edit by cmf_king_kong at 5-5-2011 23:41
Reply 72# annehuda
bukan semua la...only the typical ones...
aku pun melayu jugak..takkanla aku nk ckp aku ni a**hole...but who knows, somewhere out there mesti ada yg ckp aku ni a**hole...you cannot pleased everyone right?
u see...the thing with many malay guy is, kita ni suka beno push the button on the spot...bile approach, mesti dah set dlm otak nak mengorat...
bila dah set dlm kepala nak mengorat, kita akan jadi pressure sbb ego is on the stake...tak dapat kang malu...
sebab tu aku slalu tekankan, jgn sekali-kali set dlm kepala otak nak mengorat masa approach...kenal je dulu, take the first stage of developing the friend relationship dulu..
bile kita approach dengan niat nak berkenalan dulu, the pressure isn't that much burdening because we got nothing to lose...so what kalau dia tak layan, bukannya nak ngorat dia pun..nak kenal je...tak nak layan takpe...boleh kenal awek lain...see?...bila kita set macam tu, secara tak langsung kita ada konfiden sebab takde sebarang hope yang diletakkan dan bila kita ada keyakinan, proses perkenalan tu lebih terkawal dan lancar..
tapi bila disetkan sesi approaching tu dengan niat nak mengorat...kita dah bebankan emosi kita dengan harapan...harapan supaya tak di rejek......dalam kepala otak dah start paranoid pikir kalau dia buat tak endah camane?..kalau dia malukan aku macamane?...lagi teruk kalau kena maki balik camane?...
dilema...nak approach ke tanak...kebanyakkannye tak approach la sbb tak nak amik risiko...tapi yg approach, dengan pressure plus nervous lagi, boleh ke nak fikir opening yang bagus?...last2 dapat cakap "hi...boleh berkenalan?"
let say aku ni awek dan aku ni hot...ramai lelaki yg nak berkenalan dgn aku...the last thing that i wanna hear is another guy approaching me with opening of "hi...boleh berkenalan?"
bila dah kena rejek...runtuhla the wall of ego tu...nak cover balek mula la buat perangai mengade...cakap awek tu sial la..bohsia la..sombong nak mampos la...ade yg doakan mati eksiden laa...u see...bila ego lelaki dicalarkan, dia akan buat apa saje utk make himself feel good...biasanya dia buruk2kan awek tu la...kan dah tak pasal2 je awek tu yg kene |
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Reply mamatarosan
ok
cmf_king_kong Post at 5-5-2011 10:31 
tapi sebenarnya awak bagus sebab berani keluarkan pendapat dan idea mcmni utk semua fikir semula tentang 'minat' 'meminati' seseorang ni... betul, byk cara sebenarnya tiap kita ni jika berada dalam situasi mcmni... kalo siapa ngaku xpernah alami, mmg hipokritlah nampaknya.. teknik2 dan taktik2 yg awk bgtau ni sebenarnya sedikit sebanyak sy juga sebagai lelaki penah alami... |
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approach la secara natural jgn try too hard. meluat  |
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