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Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)
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wowwww......baru jumpa dr love kat sni.....adehhhh
en ifan, soklan....(wid tak reti omputeh...arap maklum)....
minggu lepas abah call bagitau ada org nak datang nengok wid raya nie.....abah kata makcik yg nak kenalkan......dia nak datang bersama rombongan.....masalah skang nie wid kenal pun tidak.....usahkan gambar...suara pun tak penah dengar......wid pun tak tahu menahu pape pun detail org tue....apa sahaja.....memang blurrr......adehhh terasa macam zaman dulu2 plak...... so what should i do??? |
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wowwww......baru jumpa dr love kat sni.....adehhhh
en ifan, soklan....(wid tak reti omputeh...ara ...
widuri Post at 12-8-2010 19:43 
kiranya makcik wid tengah atur kan match-making la ni...hehe, mesti wid berdebar-debar kan? maklum la orang yg kita nak jumpa tak di kenali, pastu di atur pula oleh makcik sendiri...pressure,pressure...
anyways, yg perlu wid jaga adalah penampilan diri, wid perlu berpakaian kemas dan berdandan secukupnya, first impression last a life time...pertemuan pertama mengekalkan persepsi selamanya...pakai lah wangi-wangian, perlu menjaga tatatertib apabila bercakap...kalau boleh, pakai lah baju kurung...baju kurung melambangkan keperibadian seorang wanita melayu yg lembut... |
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ermmm...berdebar2 tue skit je......ahaks.....yg bab risau tue yg jadi sebab besar.......huhuhu ...
widuri Post at 14-8-2010 19:27 
mcm orang dulu2 lak tunjuk gambar2 ni...harap2 bukan anak sarip dol, samseng kampung dusun...kehkehkeh...
mungkin ayah atau makcik wid dapat recommend atau memberi nasihat mengenai pilihan mereka, tetapi kata putus akhir adalah di tangan wid, sebagai seorang dewasa, we need to make choices. Suka atau tidak, keputusan adalah di tangan wid. But the best thing is that you need to see this guy first hand, bukan melalui ckp2 mulut sahaja. Barulah wid dapat menilai sebaiknya. |
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Hi Guys/Gals,
Another topic that is interesting to debate. Sometimes, when i read female or male love problems, it seems that the only person that is at fault is the person you pointing finger too i.e. your bf or gf. Don't you ever wonder that perhaps that you are at fault? Sometimes we think that we are ok but the other person may think that we are NOT okay.
For example, if you like to dress in a sexy manner (for ladies that is), how in the hell you want to attract the right kind of guy? Unless you want to attract hungry male wolves, that is your choice. But to attract decent and good-mannered guys, you need to dress-up at least a little bit more polite...
We all want to find a good and responsible partner but sometimes we, ourselves give out the wrong signal. So to the ladies, do not complaint if you attract douche bag or losers in you life...look yourself hard in the mirror, do i deserve this guy? |
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salam,ifan,saya ada msalah yg serupa dgan botolkicapmanis. what is the solution?
I dont know how to ask him abt this thing n im afraid that he wud think i dont trust him..
thanx |
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salam,ifan,saya ada msalah yg serupa dgan botolkicapmanis. what is the solution?
I dont know how to ...
ayenwafa Post at 29-8-2010 13:37
botolkicapmanis? care to explain please? saya tak paham...masalah awak dgn botol kicap yg manis atau forumer botolkicapmanis? |
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Reply 952# ifanonline
haha.okey sorry awk xpham.msalah saya sama dngan forumer botolkicapmanis, bf saya ada rmai kwan prempuan n almost all yg comment kat fb dia, prempuan,sy tak kesah(huhu.tipuu nih). tapi kalau dah mcm gurau2 manje,tu kira mcm dah lebih jee.Jeles saya ...lpas tu,kat fb,dia letak status single,saya tak paham..Dia sebenarnya serius tak dgan saya,atau main2 je..n pada awak, bnde ni biasa ke bg lelaki?
Ifan ada reply,ladies shud tell the truth regardless of the consequences,tnya dia apa sbenarnya perasaan dia kat kita. The problem is, I dont know how to say it without letting him thinking that i dont put my trust in him..
thanks ifan |
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Reply ifanonline
haha.okey sorry awk xpham.msalah saya sama dngan forumer botolkicapmanis, b ...
ayenwafa Post at 30-8-2010 00:00
owh, baru saya paham...ingat kan awak ade masalah nak beli kicap manis...kalau pasal kicap manis ni senang aje, beli lah cap kipas udang...sedap tauuuu...hahaha....
jokes aside, awak kena slow talk dgn bf awak tu, ckp baik2 kat dier...adakah dier serius atau nak main2 aje...kalau nak main2, anggap lah bf awak tu kawan biasa jer, tak lebih daripada...jadi senang kalau mana2 jejaka yg tampan dan segak nak dekat dgn awak...kalau dier anggap awak serius, bagitau dier yg awak ni jenis jeles dan tak suka pompuan lain kacau bf awak tu...kalau bf awak tak terima sikap jeles awak tu, maknanya dier tidak sesuai bagi awak...sila cari jejaka yg memahami sikap jeles awak tu... |
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nk tumpang tanye....
betul ke this kind of male really exist?
die ckp die xpnah bercinta,so die xtau nk treat girl camne..
kalau sms die, jarangggggg sangat die akan balas...
kalu kite x kontek die berhari2, berhari2 la die pon akan senyapppp je.
bile tanye nape senyap je,die ckp "i xtau ape nk sembang"
bila tanye die bosan ke dgn cara i, dia ckp x...
tapi cara dia macam dia bosan...
dis guy betul2 serius ke?..... |
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nk tumpang tanye....
betul ke this kind of male really exist?
die ckp die xpnah bercinta,so die xt ...
pearl.silver Post at 4-9-2010 23:26
hi pearl, unfortunately, this kinda guys DO exist...nak buat cam mana kan? sifat dan sikap dier mcm tu...so how do we overcome this problem? awak kena hyper-active skit la...talk to him, ask him some question, etc...maybe he will open up slowly, this kinda guys are sometime like to be in their shell...mcm kura2 dan siput sedut...hehe |
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Reply 956# ifanonline
mmg slalu sy yg akan starts the conversation..seb bek laa diri ini meriah bila bersembang...
bila difikir2 kembali, ye kot..die xtau nk start..selalu sy start, die sambung je...huhuhu
die sangat2 xmemahami pompuan..bila sy cam nk majuk sket,die xpaham...uwaahhh...
alih2 xjadi pon nk majuk..
ni 1st time jumpa laki2 yg camni...so sy kne cuba memahami dia laa skang ni...
tapi..........die suda gagal untuk dihubungi..huhu...
"plis try again later"..kata gadis penyambut talipon... |
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Reply ifanonline
haha.okey sorry awk xpham.msalah saya sama dngan forumer botolkicapmanis, b ...
ayenwafa Post at 30-8-2010 00:00
saya nye masalah pon lebih kurang sama
tp die dh jd tunang saya..
ntah la..kenapa dh hampir 8thn msh mampu bertahan lg..sy nie mcm invisible jerk
br2 nie saya msk msg fb die n jumpe sumthing yg sy tak suka..tp die kata takde apa2 ngan pompuan tue
die kata saya kacau privacy die..maybe salah sy jugak tak bg die privacy
die pon jenis byk kwn pompuan..kdg2 sweet talker..ramai peminat
saya berserah pada takdir je laa
saya sedih,tp kene pk masak2 kalau nk wat decision..even tak nak wat decision jgk merupakan satu decision..huhu
dah la pd ms yg sama,ade kwn lama sy..die penah luahkan perasaan die..tp die dh kawen..skrang klu msg sy kdg2 panggil sy sayang..tp feeling saya pd die mcm kwn je
runsinggg.. |
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saya nye masalah pon lebih kurang sama
tp die dh jd tunang saya..
ntah la..kenapa dh hampi ...
Levis502 Post at 5-9-2010 16:48
the question is, do u love your fiance? it looks like your fiance is looking for better options (it seems to be), even though you are engage..maybe you should step up your effort to win him over...what have you done lately to capture his attention? to woo him? The tips here is that be more of an interesting person...people tend to get bored easily if it is something routine...even in a relationship...keep the burning fire of love alive... |
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i'll graduate this year. which path should i choose for my future
a) love
b) further my study
c) start a career
could you give your opinion?
i appreciate it....
p/s i'm 22 |
wymer Post at 9-5-2007 22:02 
bace balik benang lame-lame ni kan buat me gelakkan diri sendiri je sbb sendiri tak ingat pon pernah post kat sini.....
anyway i chose to start with career......
economy belum stabil lagi but im trying to build my life piece by piece
compared to last 3 years sekarang dah lebih matang dan semakin tahu menilai kegelapan dan kebenaran (ayat insaf di bulan Ramadhan)
pasal further my study, ada jugak cross my mind but not now
as for love, how do i say it....... biarlah masa menentukan, its complicated
anyway i enjoy reading the past pages
but if love doc wudnt mind, again, how do we know if a man like us?
what is the line between like as a friend and like as a boy likes a girl
tqvm |
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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 6-9-2010 12:28
but if love doc wudnt mind, again, how do we know if a man like us?
what is the line between like as a friend and like as a boy likes a girl
wymer Post at 6-9-2010 10:57
very interesting question...when does a boy likes/loves a girl? mcm tajuk filem plak...hehe
Actually, we are talking about two different beings here...A MAN and A WOMAN...both has different biological needs...
To sustain a friendship between a male and female is very hard, because sometime, friendship involve caring for one another, helping each other during thick or thin, etc...with this kind of scenario, you intend to love or care for your friend whether it is between male & male or female & female...
But the meaning of LOVE and CARE between male and female is different...male and female interpret LOVE and CARA differently because we have different brain and DNA functions...
Getting back to your question, WHAT IS THE LINE BETWEEN FRIEND AND A BOY WHO LIKES A GIRL?
Well, it's simple actually...the one who display the most LOVE and CARE to you is actually liking and loving you. But how do you want to know this? He or She would sacrifice their time to be with you, even though they are busy, tired, etc...even good friends would not want to sacrifice their time for you...TIME IS LIKE LIFE...only the one who loves you the most care to sacrifice their TIME. |
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Reply 955# ifanonline
i do luv him..luv him so much n sumtime it hurts..
skrang kiterorg tgh LDR...huhu..but i will try to do sumthing to be more interesting
i knw he is not perfect..me too..coz nobody is perfect..
i really want to be with him..
sebenarnye, everyday die msg n he said he miss n luv me everyday..
takpon i jer yg rase insecure..
huhu |
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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 6-9-2010 21:58
Reply ifanonline
i do luv him..luv him so much n sumtime it hurts..
skrang kiterorg tgh LDR... ...
Levis502 Post at 6-9-2010 20:31
ic...LDR can put a lot of pressure for both of you...the one thing i hate most about a relationship is LDR...been there, done that and i would not want to be there and doing it again...period...
I think u should quickly tie the knot before other 'temptation' pull you away from each other...dah kenal selama 8 tahun kan? Why waste anymore time? Discuss with your fiance on how best to resolve the problem, the more you wait, the more option open for both of u...LDR do make people insecure... |
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HUMANS ARE EMOTIONAL CREATURES
What can I say...humans, male or female are emotional creatures. We have feelings. It's hard to think in a logical way when we love or hate someone. Feelings can be associated with lust. The combination of lust and love is a powerful antidote that could make the world go round. In history, many great lovers such as Romeo and Juliet, Shah Jehan and Mumtaz, Cleopatra,etc.
In love, there is no logic because love is not logical. If love was logical, we could easily calculate love. But can love be calculated? Can love be determine? The answer is NO. Love is subjective. A king, sultan, president, leaders can go crazy over love. But love towards god is the most sacred of all. |
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Reply 960# ifanonline
ifan... sy nk tanya, lelaki ni mmg secara fitrahnye boleh membahagikan cinta dan kasih sayangnye lebih dr seorg wanita ke? dalam konteks bukan family yerk..i mean wife / gf..
boleh ke cinta tu dibahagi sama rata?
ada x konsep curang dlm sesuatu perhubungan tu if this man mencintai 2 org wanita sekaligus ?? dlm kes saya, belom berkawen |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 12-8-2010 07:43 PM
Author
... abah kata dia nak datang jugak walau tuan empunya diri tak datang.....tgk gambar jadi lah katanya....erkkkk.....masalahnya gambar wid sema photo genik...buatnya dia terpikat susah wid......dah laa datang rombongan.....abah lakcam suka lak....cakap sambil gelak2...biar betul org tua itue...ada perancangan tanpa pengetahuan kah????.....adehhhhhhhhhh.....risau....risau.....nasihattttt plzzzz???? 
