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Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)
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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 15-9-2010 10:41
Reply ifanonline
ifan... sy nk tanya, lelaki ni mmg secara fitrahnye boleh membahagikan cinta d ...
lastchaos Post at 14-9-2010 23:20 
Secara fitrahnya, lelaki dan wanita adalah berbeza, dari segi pemikiran dan perasaan. Looking at it in a Muslim perspective, dlm Islam, tuhan membenarkan seseorang lelaki muslim utk berkahwin lebih dari satu, iaitu maksimum 4 orang. Di sini kita dpt lihat bahawa tuhan membuatkan lelaki sebagai pemimpin dan boleh memimpin isteri2 dan anak2. Jadi, to answer your question, YES, lelaki boleh mencintai ramai wanita pada satu2 masa. Maybe u akan kata this is not fair, tapi cuba kita fikir-fikirkan, apa akan jadi kalau tuhan memberi kelebihan kpd wanita berkahwin 4 lelaki? mempunyai 4 suami? Dunia akan hancur... |
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Reply 962# ifanonline
mmmm..bagaimana konsep dgn curang jika lelaki tu masih belom berkawen ? i mean, adakah lelaki ni termasuk dlm golongan yg menipu /curang gf dia? yes, the relationship between dgn gf pertaman dah serius ( dh plan nk kawen), tp dia juga mencintai sorang garl lain which is dia x boleh nk janji kawen disbkn dia dah berjanji dgn gf pertaman dia? hehe ifan, paham x soklan sy tuh? |
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Reply ifanonline
mmmm..bagaimana konsep dgn curang jika lelaki tu masih belom berkawen ? ...
lastchaos Post at 15-9-2010 13:17
saya paham...cheating is opposite of trust...maksud u, is it consider cheating to your gf kalau ade spare part lain? actually, it is consider cheating if you love someone and telling them that u love them...but we can argue that selagi tiada ikatan yg sah i.e. berkahwin secara sah, anybody can do anything...sad to say, it happens to most of us...
it's very hard to gain trust...nak mempercayai lelaki atau wanita pada zaman kini amat susah...because humans have the tendency to lie if they are uncomfortable or threaten. So there is no definite answer on cheating. Some people will justify why they cheat. But to me, you have cheated on the one love if u have tell them that u love them...if u want to cheat, than don't love that person. |
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Reply 964# ifanonline
ifan, sy girl. dlm kes ni sy adalah gf ke dua ..huhu :'
if u remember my case, dl sy penah nk undur diri dari dia since dia dh terkantoi ade gf lain..
n dia pn dh admit dia ade plan nk kawen dgn gf pertama dia..
but, he insist nk continue dgn sy :@ :@..
from dr cara dia layan sy dr mula kenal sampai skang mmg x berubah ( dh kenal 3 thn lebih, kapel br sethn). mmg dia layan sy baaiikk sgt..tp tula, bg saya dia cheat sy n 1st gf dia..dia tetap bersalah ritee?
ifan, do u think, i shud tell her gf ttg kewujudan sy? sy terlalu bersalah kat gf dia.. |
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Reply ifanonline
ifan, sy girl. dlm kes ni sy adalah gf ke dua ..huhu :'
if u remember m ...
lastchaos Post at 15-9-2010 17:59
like i said before...selagi tiada ikatan yg sah, anything can happen...your bf dah bertunang ke? kalau dah, lebih baik u undur diri, don't be the one who ruin other peoples relationship. Kalau belum, that guy masih 50-50 antara first gf dier dan awak. Mcm ni lah, bagi dier ultimatum. Tell him to choose either u or her, unless u are willing to take a chance, masih mengharapkan dier, go on with the relationship, u don't have to tell his first gf. |
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Reply 966# ifanonline
dia blom bertunang.. tp mmg ade plan nk berkawen..dgn sy dia x pernah berjanji nk kawen, so sy rase bleh agak siapa pilihan dia kan..ifan, from the 1st i know about her, saya mmg fikir nak backoff..sy akan rase berslh, jeless, n macam2 lg la yg x patut sy pikir..
but the problem is, HIM. dia akan cari sy, insist..n u tau jerla, hati pompuan ni..cair gak la..sy penah saje2 ugut dia nk bgtau 1st gf dia pasal kwujudan sy if dia stil nk teruskn relationship dgn sy..ifan, dia jawap apa awk tau, dia x ksh..apa nk jd jdla..hmmmmm..what do u think lelaki camni? tamak kerrr? |
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Reply ifanonline
dia blom bertunang.. tp mmg ade plan nk berkawen..dgn sy dia x pernah berjanji n ...
lastchaos Post at 16-9-2010 00:19
dier masih 50-50 la tu...mungkin awak puncanya 50-50 tu? cuba tanya dia... |
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Reply 968# ifanonline
yup..dia mmg admit bcoz of me..but ifan, whats the point? huhu sy bukan jenis rebut2 ni..nak2 plak 1st gf dia pn xtau..
ase mcm sy nih kekasih gelap dia jer..
ifan, sy ase retreat is the best thing rite? i shud tabahkan ati, keraskan ati rite?? |
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Reply ifanonline
yup..dia mmg admit bcoz of me..but ifan, whats the point? huhu sy bukan jenis ...
lastchaos Post at 16-9-2010 22:40
retreat is one of the option...but from my opinion, let the guy choose between u or her...but u yourself need to give him the ultimatum...kata putus antara awak atau his 1st gf...you can't have both, unless dier nak berbini dua...hehe (just joking) |
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Reply 970# ifanonline
huhu..u are rite..dia mmg nk kawen dua2..x tau nk pilih mana satu..:@ :@ |
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Reply 972# ifanonline
hahaaa..kann..haishhhh
masalahnye ifan, dia mmg cukup dah ciri2 nk jd suami ni..tp tang dia pasang dua tu arr yg xleh terima..huhuuu
gosshh i wish never met him, open my heart to him..haishhhhh x psl2 sakit jiwa.. |
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Reply ifanonline
hahaaa..kann..haishhhh
masalahnye ifan, dia mmg cukup dah ciri2 nk jd suami ...
lastchaos Post at 18-9-2010 22:48
ok...so u betul2 fall in love la dgn this guy? i rasa let the best women win... |
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ok...so u betul2 fall in love la dgn this guy? i rasa let the best women win...
ifanonline Post at 19-9-2010 19:20
really? if mcm tu shud i compete secara berhemah kekdahnye? meaning, shud i bgtau 1st gf dia ttg kewujudan saya?sy x mahu jd kekasih gelap dia..byk makan hati .. |
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really? if mcm tu shud i compete secara berhemah kekdahnye? meaning, shud i bgtau 1st gf dia ttg ...
lastchaos Post at 19-9-2010 21:55
no need to inform his 1st gf...compete la secara berhemah... |
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Reply 976# ifanonline
ifan, dgn kata lain..bersedia la dgn mcm2 cabaran ya..huhuuuu kuat ke sy nih..mmmmm
thanks alot ifan..i do appreciate it..A LOT..in 2 months from now, nti sy bgtau updatenye ya..hehe..sy limitkn sampai ujung thn jer..if ade jodoh sy dgn dia, aderla..if xde, mmmm..move on..redha je.. |
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Reply 978# ifanonline
huhuuu..wpun x brapa yakin, i set in mind +ve outcome...awk org pertama sy akn bgtau..hheheee siap buat alarm 01.01.11 lg...
thanks anyway |
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Post Last Edit by mismas at 24-9-2010 16:36
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MENCARI PASANGAN YANG MATANG
Dalam perhubungan, mencari pasangan yang matang adalah sangat penting. Sama ada lelaki atau wanita, kematangan fikiran merupakan kriteria yg kritikal sekiranya ingin berumahtangga. Tidak semestinya seseorang lelaki atau wanita yang muda, tidak matang fikirannya. Kadang2, ada juga lelaki atau wanita yg sudah berumur, kurang matang fikirannya.
Tetapi, secara umumnya, lelaki atau wanita yg muda adalah kurang matang fikirannya. Umur yang paling sesuai utk berumahtangga bagi lelaki adalah 26-30 tahun manakala bagi wanita adalah 25-27 tahun. Tempoh matang yg sepenuhnya bagi kedua-dua lelaki dan wanita. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 15-9-2010 01:17 PM
