Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

redsinner

Reply 1053# ifanonline


    apakah jawapan anda? hihi

ifanonline

Yes..A memang ramai peminat. Saya pun tahu lepas dah terkena gossip tu semua. Mungkin pada kami bias ...
Innrukia Post at 18-6-2012 22:10

well, you are sending the wrong signal to A...and A 'perasan' yg u suka kat dier...my advice, ajak A keluar dan bincang elok2...make your feelings clear to A and hope that A understands that both of u are just friends...

A dah anggap u more than friends...but, if u nak jadik lebih mesra...make it clear too...jgn main2...sekejap kat kawan, sekejap kata suka, etc...u will be seen as main2 too...unless u suka main dgn perasan org...that is bad, and karma will bite u back in the a$$...

this what u have to do:

1. Ajak keluar lunch ke, dinner ke...sembang2 cam biasa, bring up the topic pasal friendship u...where u stand...

2. Bagitau yg u cuma nak berkawan sahaja...lelaki yg matang akan faham...kalau tak faham...lelaki tu tak matang dan layak di humban ke dalam sungai...

3. Make clear your feelings...i know how women feels about friendship and love...women wants it all...but u cannot have all...need to decide...

mrs.wentworth

aku nk tnye sesuatu boleh

ifanonline

Reply 1066# mrs.wentworth

tanyalah cik wentworth...

ifanonline

I'm contemplating...

whether or not I should do another 'Win a date with ifanonline'...

did the competition like 6-7 years ago, met a charming woman...smart, witty, cute...

doing the competition is quite a substantial task, a lot of questions and answers need to be scrutinize, analyze...since i will only be judging someone's character, personality from her answers towards my questions...

i don't meet forumers, and discreet is my virtue...

would like to get forumers feedback, ideas and thoughts...

farina012

LegalVixen posted on 16-8-2006 05:56 PM
aku plak nak tanya.....satu soalan berikutan dari benang yang telah ku hamparkan di dalam ni....

...

I read the posts on the first pg first.. n my problem macam sama ajer.. Banyak activity, social.. tapi cari bf tu susah sekali. Selalu seems nice but in the end... very kutu. Aku tak cari Brad Pitt, tapi its ok right to find someone attractive. Kalau all the gd guys are shy, then feel like I need to be more outgoing. Tapi sometimes when a girl is outgoing, guys tak suka. Leceh gitu. I dont know where to look and how to find someone mature but social.. Macam mana ni?

Sometimes I read things like this on places where I shld pay more attention... but comes down to same problem.

ifanonline

farina012 posted on 25-7-2012 11:56 AM
I read the posts on the first pg first.. n my problem macam sama ajer.. Banyak activity, social..  ...

to be an outgoing person is ok...certain guys just don't like social girls...unless the guy is social too...than u have a match...but long term material, people always go for the conservative method...

ifanonline

Salam 1Malaysia,

I will like to talk about 'Laws of Attraction', actually there is a few laws on attraction, but i will touch on a few...

1. Aura
Penah dengar pasal aura kan? well, aura ni is like an atomic energy that flows rapidly throughout our body...ade dua jenis aura, positive and negative aura...everybody has it...and different people have different aura's...

dalam relationship, we need to find someone who has compatibility with our own aura...penah terasa tak apabila berjumpa seseorang, our heart suddenly beats, the blood starts to get warm and we have some sort of a giddy feeling? itu semua adalah berkaitan dgn aura...

mafilee

aku nk tanya setiap kali aku rs org tu sesuai untuk jadi pasangan aku mesti suami orang atau bf orang..so end up aku dah tak pandang lelaki lagi..tp aku kesian kat mak aku suh aku kawin..tp mcm mana aku nk kawin klu aku asik berkenan dekat orang yang salah je..lagi satu aku tak berapa ramah dgn lelaki lagi la menjadi punca aku menjadi lone ranger all this time..aku pun rasa bebal dgn apa yg berlaku dgn diri aku sekarang..help me..

ifanonline

mafilee posted on 29-8-2012 05:26 PM
aku nk tanya setiap kali aku rs org tu sesuai untuk jadi pasangan aku mesti suami orang atau bf oran ...

masalah u ni satu masalah yg normal...bukan sahaja di hadapi wanita, tetapi lelaki juga...don't worry, ubat nya ada..

cuba belajar ringan2 kan mulut, praktis slowly ckp sepatah dua kata...tak perlu bercakap mcm bertih goreng, cukup sekadar keselesaan tuan badan yg bercakap...

lama kelamaan, kalau dah selesa bercakap...nanti org lain mudah mesra...ape2 pun, jgn pura2 dlm bercakap...people can feel the aura sooner or later...

ifanonline

hi all lovers out there,

it's been awhile since i've written here, been busy with work, hectic...there's always something to talk about when the subject is love...what love means to you? love, love, love...the four letter word...to men, love has a totally different meaning, even to women too...what is love? u care for someone? u hate someone? or is it making love...

we all have our own understanding towards love, love to your family, love to money, career, love to god, etc...whatever it is, make sure that u feel happy and satisfied...u do not want to be the person who has not felt love...it's better to feel love than not to be loved at all...that's the saying goes...

women defines love in many categories, love towards money, love towards things, etc...matter of the heart is complex...

hasienna

KALAU SOALAN RUMAHTANGGA BLH KE NI? TAK PE BG SOKLAN DULU...NAPE AWAL2 KAWEN HASBEN RAJIN BELI KEK BEZDAY, KDG2 BUAT SURPRISE ....BILA DH 6 KE 7 TAHUN KAWEN DH TAK BELI KEK LG...WISH PON TAK...SIAP KUAR G MANCING PULAK....MERAJUKKKKKKKK!!!! BUKAN HRP KEK SGT...AT LEAST TEMAN DOK RUMAH. BORAK2 KE...HAH JAWAB LA....TT NI DH KAWEN LOM?

ifanonline

hasienna posted on 17-10-2012 05:24 PM
KALAU SOALAN RUMAHTANGGA BLH KE NI? TAK PE BG SOKLAN DULU...NAPE AWAL2 KAWEN HASBEN RAJIN BELI KEK B ...

hmmm...ape2 soalan pun boleh, as long as it is matter of the heart...

mana2 manusia pun sama cik kak...zaman bercinta memang indah belaka...org kata kentut pun wangi...tak ramai lelaki romantic sehingga ke hujung nyawa...kalau ade pun, mungkin dier playboy atau casanova....but ade juga segelintir lelaki sejati yg romantic, not by his words, but by his action....menjaga isteri dan anak2, memberi kemudahan rumah, makanan dan pakaian kpd famili...bukankah ini semua perbuatan romantic? kadang2 kita ambil mudah benda2 mcm ni, ibarat benda tu satu tanggungjawab suami menyediakan semuanya kpd keluarga...

kalau husband tak romantic, cuba anda pula jadi romantic...urut kaki suami, gosok2 suami...mandi sama2...be a pro-active wife...jgn tunggu husband, take matters into your own hands....baru husband semakin sayang...

ifanonline

Lirik Ramalanku Benar Belaka - Umbrella


Hingga ke saat ini
Pelbagai persoalan
Tak henti melanda
Untuk ku memikirkannya

Kau memilih diriku di atas dasar apa
Apakah kerana cinta
Atau pelepas sepi cuma

Seumpama dedaunan yang telah gugur bertaburan
Membiarkan ranting dimamah usang
Apakah semua itu akan terjadi padaku
Andainya benar maka tepatlah apa yang kuramalkan

Waktu bersamamu banyak benar kenangan yang kita ciptakan bersama
Dan satu darinya engkau bersyahdu
Bahawa aku takkan kehilanganmu
Susah payah kita semai benih cinta
Menempuh dugaan
Akhirnya kau tinggalkan
Sia-sialah ku bina istana cinta
Andai insan lain di hatimu bertakhta

Hingga ke saat ini
Ku masih mengenangkan
Detik-detik terindah
Kesudahan aku parah

ifanonline

Hana_Hirokawa posted on 21-11-2012 04:28 PM
parah rupenye..

yes, how can i help u my dear? parah...ape yg parah tu?

ifanonline

Hana_Hirokawa posted on 22-11-2012 10:14 AM
bkn saya yg parah uncle... tp uncle tu ler gamaknye..

knp saya pula yg parah? adik ni mental ke? bleh abg bantu...

veevee2013

huhu..ni benang ape? mcm dr.love jek...
leh percaya ker TT ni..ada pengalaman bercinta ke kawen ke..

ifanonline

veevee2013 posted on 21-12-2012 09:05 PM
huhu..ni benang ape? mcm dr.love jek...
leh percaya ker TT ni..ada pengalaman bercinta ke kawen ke. ...

belum cuba belum tahu...sudah cuba lagi mahu...

veevee2013

oklah saja je nak try soalan mudah.

vee ada masalah 'conflict of interest' dgn hubby.

byk la..so mostly vee yg byk mengalah.

cth yer, hubby suka jenjalan ke tempat nature, suka tgk pemandangan alam semulajadi, drive lama2 dlm kereta sambil berbual eg smp ke PD, kekadang saja drive tru fastfood semata-mata nak makan dlm kereta sambil tgk pemandangan (apekah?), sesaja gi Genting Sempah semata-mata nak minum teh tarik dgn udara dingin (apekah?) alasan KL panas selalu, beliau amat jarangggggggggggggg(sgt) jenjalan ke shopping complex utk bershopping(x minat, alasan kaki penat, susah carik parking, jln jem ect), kalau ada pun dia nak gi teman mesti ada something benda nak dibeli, cth stokin, seluar slack, or wayang citer menarik, or nk mkn something special berdua(occasionally eg.anniversary,birthday)....

sebaliknya....

vee teramatlaaaaaaaa suka ---> window shopping, shopping, SALE!!, uptown, and segala jenis shopping mall yg ada di KL ni la...xde duit tgh bulan pun rela cuci mata je...kengkadang cuci mata ler kat Alamanda(vee keje putrajaya) dan seangkatannya.. lebih byk gi alone @ colleague @ sis, compare gi shopping ngan si dia. kalau gi ngan si dia, selalu nya kejap sgt > boring tau. cth kite nye time jenjalan 3 jam, dia 20 min jalan kaki dah alasan penat, nak merokok dll.. (argh)

tu la antara conflict of interest yg dihadapi oleh vee especially during weekend kan selalu mesti nak keluar jenjalan. tiba time nak jalan, perghhh... ke benda-benda nature ni jugak dipegi nye...

hari ni tau tak kami gi mana?????
Sungkai Hot spring ! pastu bukan mandi manda pun. makan-makan. tgk permandangan. gi sejam dua pastu balik makan nasik lemak kat Kg Baru.
oh em gee... vee layan kan saje. dlm hati fikir bila nak pegi shopping mall ni, minggu lepas gaji mcm berkobar-kobar jer poket ni nak shopping.

so ape pendapat awk?

lea_kdo

camne ni ek...
kawan saya ade kenal sorang forumer ni,Mr.Ifan(bukan nama sebenar) lama jugakla diaorg berhubung dan lama kelamaan agak mesra di situ. kwn tu pun dah mcm perasan2 sikit. angau eh.. yela sehari x berbalas pm dah rasa kosong,katanya. tetiba, sejak seminggu ni Mr.Ifan tu terus x reply spt biasa. kwn saya tu tiap2 hari mengeluh. saya la jd mangsa, kena stalk pulak Mr.Ifan ni, bila last online dsb. Mr.Ifan tu bukak je Cari ni, tp mengape dia x reply kwn sy punye pm. sedangkan dah turn dia pulak yg mereply. saya advice dia jangannnnnnnnn pm dia (kan turn Mr.Ifan ni pulak kan)...kawan saya pun ikut jela x pm dia. tapi muka bukan main sedih setiap kali nampak forum ni. so ape yg harus saya nasihatkan lagi?