he is still with you cuz he doesnt want to hurt you

mbhcsf

Originally posted by donkeylady at 27-9-2008 11:32 AM
gosh i cant believe how stupid i was.
how much time i have wasted on someone who wants to be with me but will never ever marry me.
he said it before he doesnt see me as a life partner, like the ...

so .. ok now gal?

okay i am glad.............

donkeylady

okay as in?

if ok as in ok with everything that hapenned.

definitely not.

hitamputih

silver lining is:

u can finally leave the $&^&**() kan..... he is soooooooooooo full of error. find new one then

donkeylady

thx for the leann rimes song. its really sweet and makes me feel better..

mbhcsf

i know i like her dress actually
the one that she wears during the song not with that u know.... ( i mean teh balcony part tu it's a bit too revealing)

lemontea

.......................

donkeylady

correction pls. he is the one who left me not the other way round.

but i guess i can finally leave everything behind and look forward to anything new. i think single life sounds rather good.

i can finally have date again and have my pick on the different kind of guys. so many out there. and i hope i will find that someone galaxy far far away who will say YOU COMPLETE ME. like hat mbhcsf said.

but i will definitely feel like something is missing when i see how lovey dovey a couple is out there, or even among my friends. envy? i dunno, i felt it before when i was single.

i hope im ready to embrace singlehood and enjoy! IinsyaAllah.

haha. ni out of topic sikit, but i really wonder what mbhscf means or stands for.

hitamputih

Originally posted by donkeylady at 27-9-2008 12:12 PM
correction pls. he is the one who left me not the other way round.

but i guess i can finally leave everything behind and look forward to anything new. i think single life sounds rather good.
...

yess i know he left u. but the truth is, most of us, we didnt dare to break the relationshp, we fear we cant find better person. so we always accept him/her although she is sgt sgt teruk. but kita telan jer. sebab? kita takut / taknak tinggalkan dia
....

when he left u, that actually a blessing. u can get rid of him! u see? he run from u, so its not u who are losing, dia lah lost! sapa yg sanggup accept him as who he is? cari laaa org lain. tgk laa org lain taahan ke idak ngan perangai dia....

so now u r free!!! like u said, find the other half, go flirt! meet new guys! do the things u cant/wont do when u r with him.

mbhcsf

mbhcsf - like Mr Bond said if i have to tell u theni would  have to __________ ( u  finish the phrase" lawak jer

those first three letters are my initials then last three was meant to refer to something  - fluid that your brains floats in...hahhahahahhah( READ this is just the thing that people say the 'spur' of the moment)

mbhcsf

single hood is rather a bless though i am not advocating for it but , one thing for sure it will teach u the meaning of affection, love and appreciation of other human being and of course you  are closer to your Rabb actually...for HE is the one worthy of being LOved...i NEED HIM , while HE is free of all wants, isn't it? He helped me  to find the meaning of life when i am in the y low...He HELPED me through thick and thin.. that much i owed him............

mbhcsf

eh u tak sibukkkkkkkkkkkkkk..............sowwy erk!

joeblack

Single is gud
but single is lonely....
well...  lonely is better than becoming crazy...
and keeping ur heartache and pain while u hv someone in ur heart....

I'll go for SINGLE... but playboya

qiqi_cat

You can抰 make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth..

juju_amin84

just let him go if u really love him ....
just pray to God for his happiness if that the best way for both of you ...
sometime become friend is more meaningful than a lover ...

donkeylady

alritey mates.. thx for the advice.

if i msg/call him, what will he think of me?

will he think that ims till into him and that i cant live without him?

is it better to show show your true feelings or hide it as much as you possibly can?

Friiz

do whichever u think will benefit u la... campak tepi ego sme...
kalau u still nk kan dier, contact aje la... tayah la nnt kang die da kawin ngan pompuan lain baru tekedek2 nk kapel balik~

_orglepeh_

betul. beragam2 lah

jazz4luv

betul beragam2
but I learned a lot frm ths thread, though  

hitamputih

Originally posted by qiqi_cat at 28-9-2008 11:41 AM
You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth..

nice quote      

safari_girl

Hey donkey lady!

This is going to work. Try it!

Men psychology and women psychology when it comes to relationship is totally
different. So, we rather work with nature than against men nature.

1. I think ur man is still in love with you, its just that he is not attracted to you anymore because you guys have been having the same rutin and comfortable with each other.

2. So, you need to create the attraction, the one that make him fall in love with you for the first time.

3. To do that:
a) you need to create a space so that he misses you. So, no call, no sms, no contact what so ever.
b) create a deadline for this space. Maximum = 2 months (this is tough to do..but you gotta do it)
c) While waiting for him, take care of your self. Go and have fun with ur girlfirends, go to spa, go to gym and pasang badan. Just do anything to make you feel goodabout yourself. THIS IS IMPORTANT!
d) If he doesnt call you after 2 months = make a decision - move on or give him another extension. But, remember, when you give him another extension..you gotta consider yourselve out there at the "stock market" -- you can flirt and meet other guys. Besides, good woman like you deserve a man who appreciates you.

Good luck, donkey lady..and remember..you gotta convey the message to the guys that we select them..not the other way around!

Cheers!