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ada ke org break up tak nangis???
x percaya la...
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Reply #134 halimi78's post
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aku sebenarnye xde la lupe kt ex sgt,kdg2 teringat gk.skrg ni wat2 x igt je.hoho. |
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DatingDiaries: Breaking Up Is Easy To Do: 5 Simple Rules
A friend of a friend has called hisex-girlfriend six times since she broke up with him. I told my friend to bestowmy breaking up adviceon him. Whether you want someone back or not, if you follow the rules below,you will maintain your dignity, maybe win the person back, or eventually getover them:
1. Ride Off Into The Sunset
In college I took a class called "American Western Movies".Give me a break, ok? It was summer session. But this class did teach mesomething. I learned I wanted to be a cowboy. They are so cool, collected,never play their hand, never look rattled, and they are always confident.
One thing they all did was ride offas the sun set on the horizon after their business was done.
Riding off into the sunset keeps ourdignity. When a girl breaks up with me, I will say:
"OK, it was great getting toknow you over the past (insert length of time).You take care."
My business is done.
Then, I will figuratively ride offinto the sunset. I won't tell her how much I miss her. I won't tell her shemade a mistake. I won't call,email or text. I won't mention her to mutual friends. I'll begone from her life.
Suddenly, it will dawn on the girlthat she is not getting her money's worthfor this breakup. It is true: people who do the breaking up have an air ofpower to them. They like being the decision maker, and having the control. Butafter I walk away like it's no problem, she'll start to think:
"Wow, why isn't he shaken up overthis? Did he even care that I broke up with him?"
Or even better, the ever-popular andcoveted:
"Did I do the right thingbreaking up with him?"
That's when you know you're inbusiness.
2. Apply the Wizard of Oz Effect
Of course, most likely, we are intotal pain and anguish after a break up. But, we can't let that show. Remember:
"Pay no mind to that man behindthe curtain?"
We can, behind the curtain, cry,complain, yell, be angry, and hurt. But, we must craftthe appearance on the outside of being fine with everything. Weneed to look happy on the outside to the other person 100% of the time wesee them post-breakup.
This also gives the illusion thatyou might be seeing someone else, or that you've got other things going on. Ofcourse you're miserable and there's NOTHING going on in your life, but theydon't have to know it!
3. Enact the Verb in "Breaking Up"
Get rid of all evidence of them -- putit all in a closet, under your bed, or anywhere. I'm a sucker for a strand ofhair or her shampoo smell left on a pillow after a girl is over. After thebreakup, this must go: wash the sheets! Remember, in breaking up, to think ofit like a guillotine: make it fast.
On a guillotine, you'd rather have asharp blade slice your head right off than a blunt blade repeatedly cut and cutuntil your head finally fell off.
If it's a break up they want, make itclean for them. It will look good, and it will be easieron you. Flush them right out of your life immediately, and completely.
4. Don't Look Back
It's hard to accomplish this. Weknow not to look back, just like we know not to look down whensomeone says don't look down...but we still look down. But, make it easy onyourself: looking back and saying stuff like:
"Gosh, just two weeks ago,wewere out to dinner and she stayed over here and we were so close..."
...will just make it more painful.You can't look back until it's time to look back when you're truly over it.
5. Remember You'll Get Over It
The best thing about breaking up isthose following mornings you wake up after you'vetruly gotten over someone. You're renewed, alive, and ready tosee what the world has to offer. Keep pushing through for this feeling,remember all those people you thought you'd never get over (you know you endedup getting over them), and as Jim Morrison once crooned: "break onthrough to the other side!"
Well I don't know about you, but aftergoing through all that, I'm inspired to get dumped!
So, do you agree with these rules?Do you have any nightmare breakup stories?If a guy you dumped followed these rules, would you start reconsidering? Wouldyou be annoyed if you dumped a guy and he didn't get upset? |
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Balas #142 nafisa85\ catat
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aku.... ms break up aku xnangis.. dah blk br nangis |
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Balas #137 mojo10\ catat
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tq.. its just wat i feel la... |
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Meow dah tak ada rasa apa-apa lagi kat ex2 meow..
bagi meow biarlah dorang bahagia dengan kehidupan dorang
lagi bila meow dapat tahu salah sorang ex meow dah berkahwin dan mempunyai anak.
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wah,ramainye ex meow.meriah btul meow punye zaman2 dlu. |
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menyampah tahap gabannnn...meluattt...rs nak cekik2 jekkk 
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perasaan sayang tetap ada namun cinta telah jadi milik org lain...
[ Last edited by whiteDhahlia at 31-8-2008 02:47 PM ] |
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Originally posted by <i>polaris_girlz</i> at 29-8-2008 03:30 PM <a href="http://mforum.cari.com.my/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=25622651&ptid=366015" target="_blank"><img src="http://mforum.cari.com.my/images/common/back.gif" border="0" onload="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onmouseover="if(this.width>screen.width*0.7) {this.resized=true; this.width=screen.width*0.7; this.style.cursor='hand'; this.alt='Click here to open new window\nCTRL+Mouse wheel to zoom in/out';}" onclick="if(!this.resized) {return true;} else {window.open(this.src);}" onmousewheel="return imgzoom(this);" alt="" /></a><br />
menyampah tahap gabannnn...meluattt...rs nak cekik2 jekkk <img src="images/smilies/3vmad.gif" smilieid="55" border="0" alt="" /> <br />
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Originally posted by mojo10 at 27-8-2008 09:03 AM 
"bila kita pernah sayang someone, kita tak kan dpt lupakan dia sampai bila2"
itu yang mak aku kata... jadik ko kira tak budus la.... 
lupa mungkin tak. 爐api 爐akkan nak berkabung sepanjang hidup |
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meow dah tuer... sbb tu byk ex.. |
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sayang dan cinta but berharap sgt2 die takkan muncul lg dlm hidup ni.
klu die muncul juge tak tau cmne nk teruskan kehidupan yg semakin elok nie |
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ak nk luah skit,skrg ni ex ak asyik merayu rayu nk blk kt ak...ak kesian n sayang lg,tp ak dh serik kena tipu....isk2,patutkah ak break ga die disebabkan die g jmp ex die tp x bgtau pon kt ak..selama ni ak dh acap kali pesan,ape2 ctr kt ak,tp die ni x makan nasihat plak,geram2...so,ak ambik keputusan clash.wajarkah tindakan ak ini???patutkah???atau ak yg terlampau jeles????ni soal prinsip n ak x suka kena tipu..perlukah diriku memberi peluang kepadanye???kompius2......waaaaaaaaaa bantu la diriku ni oh tuhan,,,, |
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Reply #160 once9903's post
Dia g jmp ex dia buat apa? Dating?  Maybe ada hal kot dia jumpa ex dia. |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 27-8-2008 10:44 AM
