Abusive Relationship, tunggu lagi?

cikbunga.

green~tea replied at 14-1-2019 04:20 PM
dia kena cari kekuatan dia sendiri... u can only advice and bitch slap... tp utk dia berani buat k ...

Ohh wow alright i will InsyaAllah!.. Thank you very much!..

cikbunga.

tiramisuu replied at 14-1-2019 04:22 PM
Instead of focusing about abusive partner, aku rasa better ko ajak kwn ko learn new thing dan bykkn  ...

I'm so grateful and happy with your words!... Thank you so much tiramisuu for your words. I really appreciate it and I'm very sure if my friend sedar InsyaAllah, she will be so thankful to all of you!.. Saya mungkin orang tengah sahaja yang cuba tolong my friend but actually because each forumer opinions about this matter, saya ada a good2 point untuk saya suruh my friend to end it. Thank you again tiramisuu and other forumers too!!..

cikbunga.

green~tea replied at 14-1-2019 04:25 PM
orang jongos takmo move on degil tahap tikus bendang ni biar je dia kesangapan kena tipu jantan... ...

How i wish cari forum ni ada button yang boleh bagi heart, saya akan bagi heart banyak2 for this words!!.. Thank you for the words.. Mengajar saya juga...

cikbunga.

sheqim replied at 14-1-2019 05:24 PM
Baran ni umpama kaki perempuan jugak.. susah nak berubah..

Memang ur fren xkan lari pon meols as ...

I hope my friend lagi ingat those maki2an yang dia terima daripada those sweet words...

cikbunga.

AkuMark replied at 14-1-2019 05:47 PM
Tinggalkan sis. Hati tak tenang tak bahagia nak buat apa. Harap sheols strong utk melangkah keluar ...

Yes betul hopefully bukan my friend sahaja but to whoever yang face the same thing is strong enough to end this toxic relationship. Thank you so much for your words!!..

tiramisuu

cikbunga. replied at 14-1-2019 05:57 PM
I'm so grateful and happy with your words!... Thank you so much tiramisuu for your words. I really ...

Bukan senang nk kuar dr abusive relationship tp bukan mustahil. Ko kna dorong dia, x blh paksa dgn nasihat berkilo2 sbb aku sure kawan ko dah sedar sbb tu dia bercerita cuma x berani nk move on. Dh kna brainwash dgn manipulative bf.

Bila tenang2, kawan ko dlm mood rileks, ko rekues dia buat satu list pro and con bf dia. Listkn personality atau appearance yg simple2 pun cam suka dia sbb dia tinggi, kulit putih, pakai glasses etc. Tulis bila ingt. Then, ko tgk n baca. Then ko bg balik dan tanya, if this was my problem and this is my bf. What is your opinion? Bg dia berpikir dr perspektif org luar. Bgthu is this a guy who will be a father to your child? Is this environment that your child would see everyday?

Ko tgk list tu dan dr situ, ko tgk good attitude laki tu. If good attitude tu something yg kawan ko xde cthnya laki tu a good listener, help her to become good attitude tu sndr atau help her cari someone yg blh jd a good listener too. Help her to love herself more than other people.

wanzhm93

ladybugz replied at 13-1-2019 07:39 AM
Assalamualaikum TT, ive been in ur position before ths. Ade kwn yg bercinta dgn lelaki mcm ni. She i ...

Tragis kisah you... Kawan you ni mesti tak berfikir panjang masa tu...

Toxic relationship ni biasanya mental pun jadi tak betul... Tak boleh berfikir secara waras...

Akal tertumpu pada satu... Padahal banyak jek yang more better tapi tak nampak... That y org cakap cinta tu buta

ladybugz

wanzhm93 replied at 14-1-2019 06:32 PM
Tragis kisah you... Kawan you ni mesti tak berfikir panjang masa tu...

Toxic relationship  ...

Tulah.. sedih bile teringatkan kisah hidup my friend ni. Semoga Allah beri kekuatan utk dia bangkit dan semoga berjumpa dengan jodoh yg lebih baik dan dia juga dpt jadikan ianya satu pengalaman yg membuatkan dia lebih dekat dgn Allah dan lebih matang. In shaa Allah.  She is a very strong girl, i do believe tht. Harapnya sesiapa yg baca kisah i bgtau tu ambil pengajaran juga, jika sebelum kahwin, seorg lelaki itu mendera kita mental dan fizikal, bersyukurlah dan ambil lah ia sebagai petunjuk yang dia adalah org yg kita patut jauhi dan doalah bersungguh2 supaya kita dijauhkan drpd org2 yg sedemikian.

pichee

pity nye your fren....

knape die nk teruskan hubungan dgn org yg buat 360 / 365 days in year akan   maki die..bygkn 5 ari je bahagia...

hidup ni dh cukup byk masalah...knape perlu tambah masalah...

spttnye zaman bercinta ..zaman plg indah..xde busuk pn...mmg indah la...klu dh kawin lain la...ni blm kawin dh nk hadap masalah mcm ni...

masih ramai lg ygnormal kt luar tu...


klu laki tu sendiri x blh nk ubah hdp die..knape mmb u fkr die yg blh ubah laki tu? no way...

nnt mmb u  akan abiskan usia utk ubah org lain...buat penat je...

noraidil_06

@Iris. Ade dah thread

Iris.

noraidil_06 replied at 25-5-2019 05:01 AM
@Iris. Ade dah thread

Hadammm kunyah2 dan telan

Meiizu

green~tea replied at 14-1-2019 04:02 PM
laki tu saikooooooooooooooooo.. perangai tak normal and tak malu dgn orang.. atk hormat orang.. ik ...

Maaf sis...I plak tegelak kuat part buat lovebite byk2 tu.siyess dia bodo nakmatiy

NurAlia14

Nnt esok2 ade anak, anak di maki2 nye..its not good..baik blah bnyk lagi lelaki baik..karang dh kawen xleh nk bt ape dh..sng cite xyah kawen la laki skng bnyk xgune