I like him but i dont want to wait any longer

pretty00ugly · Post time 30-5-2008 10:33 PM

hi peeps, i like this 1 guy. he is a friend of my sis.
he is 5 yrs older than me. im 23 and he is becoming 28.
im studying abroad and he is working in malaysia.

he always busy with his work.
i never met him in person but we kept in touch by Yahoo messenger and calls. im the one who call him since the cost frm UK is cheaper.

the thing is, one day i confessed to him that i like him . he said he likes me too, very much.

but i dont know what to do.
i mean when he said for the time being, being friends is the best solution. i agreed with him.

in 3 weeks time, im going back to malaysia for summer holidays.
he decided to fetch me up when i arrive KLIA.
that wud be the first time we are going to meet.

but nowadays he became very busy. no time to chat.
sometimes i think that he was not that into me.

is it a normal feeling or is he having a different way of approaching?

help

confused

[ Last edited by pretty00ugly at 30-5-2008 10:36 PM ]

mawarputih2612 · Post time 30-5-2008 11:58 PM

maybe he's seeing someone else??

when he says that he will only be your friend for the time being, then accept the fact and be still best friends

u are only hurting yourself and by only thinking about him, u are not paying attention to see if someone else is looking at u..

How can someone make me so sad, but still i only want them to stay
I wanna say i love you so bad, but i don't wanna scare you away
Please, i wish that you'll understand that i wanna be more than just your friend
I wish you loved me

pretty00ugly · Post time 31-5-2008 12:06 AM

he said he wanted to be friends since we never met. it may take time i guess. but at least show me some signs right?or else i'd be off to find another way

nania · Post time 1-6-2008 04:45 PM

Dont wait for him dear. He already said that he remain friend with you. I think you like him too much that you afraid he will express his feeling at some time later when you already have someone else..

If you find somebody else.. just give a try.. Why not?

syaz_xxl · Post time 1-6-2008 06:05 PM

but i thnk he act likes u.
normal for guys at his age pay more attntion pada kerja dr his love life.
the simplest way is u tnye die teros.
eg: do u thnk dat our relationship could go more than just a fren?
wutever jawapan die pon, be prepared.
so atleast u'r not hurting urself waiting for his answer.
u still young la darl.
if he is meant to be wif u, die ttp akn jd milik u.

Superb_1 · Post time 1-6-2008 10:05 PM

u have to see him 1st then u can make good decision for ur future!
Don't waste time for making any assumption that u doesn't know is it true or not...
Ask him again face to face,see through his eyes...
eyes never lies!

Whatever his answers,be optimist

k!

genelec · Post time 2-6-2008 04:02 PM

Come on....

come back ..... get a job.... get some friends.... just give u a couple of years...then U will know

enchantedlurve · Post time 5-11-2008 06:47 PM

rasenyer he like more mcm kawan2.. not more than dat..

testas · Post time 6-11-2008 07:41 AM

biasa la tu bila dah jatuh cinta mmg feel mcm tu..

selalu akan pikir bende2 lain..

selalu pikir dia dah ada gurl lain ker.. or die tak suka i lagi ke..mcm2 la perkara cam ni yg u akan terfikir..

that luv .

tu yg buat luv tu best and bende2 cam ni yg org yg jatuh cinta tak tido malam and setiap kali hp berbunyi ..hati harap si dia yg call atau sms..

testas · Post time 6-11-2008 07:43 AM

tp try kawan cam biasa aje..

kalau u commit terlalu awal nanti menyesal plak..
enjoy2 dulu..
balik mesia keja dapat duit bnayak.. baru pikir pasal guy..

i tell u.. enjoy dulu life masa bujang ni.. rugi kalau kawen awal..

hehehehe