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Edited by bellaa at 26-1-2015 05:22 PM
in a relation?
that mean engaged or takat kapel?
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berdasarkan pengalaman aku...dia suka ko. xde maknanya kalo stakat rakan sekerja yg berlainan jantina nk amik berat smpai mcm tu. |
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Sebab tu org cakap senang je nak ambil hati perempuan,
just give her attention..
Well, u tau dia dah inrelationship. So, better u put some space between both of u..
As pertanyaan u..
So macam mana saya nak face this situation ( dengan dia constantly ambil berat pasal saya) but maintain professional with no involvement of any feelings? Any suggesstion?
So, i suggest u just layan him mcm biasa. Treat him like ur fren not more than that..
If u layan perasaan u, nnt u will fall for him. Padahal he has no feeling kt u pun..
so, better think twice..
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My 2cent, you tak perlu 'lari' lagi, sebab belum ada apa2 comfirmation, could be nothing? who knows? lagi pun dia tak confront apa2 kan, dia tak panggil sayang or what ever act yang jelas terang lagi bersuluh yg dia ada feeling cinta. So relax je. Anggap je ni act between senior and junior.
For your side, tak perlu lah melayan lebih2, jawab je soalan dia yang mana penting, selebihnya you try untuk slowdown dia punya over-caring, mcm you tak reply ke or whatever.
You have to remember yg dia dah berpunya. So be wise. |
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tak engaged pun, only someone special. x pasti sejauh mana relationship dieorang.
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Nampak macam nak ke arah2 tuh. But if possible, saya nak prevent before things getting more complicated.
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Itulah, i'm totally trying to keraskan hati, but sometime timbul jugak suara2 halus even tengah cuba nak deny kan. Nak completely ignore dia pun x boleh since our work require us to always talk to one another. Haish, dugaan jiwa betol! 
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rasenye.. masih wujud lagi lelaki yg baik dan mengambil berat dan bersopan santun dan caring tanpa maksud atau niat2 yang tersirat dan tersurat .. get over it, go with the flow.. jgn u gile bayang dulu sudah la.. |
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Sometimes rasa macam setting a distance between the two of us sounds like a good solution, x de lah nanti dia sentiase depan mata and at least won't have a high chance nak act super caring towards me kan. Tapi tu lah same units, same team, memang agak mencabar lah jugak. For the time being, i'll try tuk pikir dia memang jenis yang layan semua orang baik, nothing special, so x de lah nak rasa terbuai2 ke apa ke. Thanks for the advice!
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owh dorang bf gf la nih..
maybe dia ada konflik dgn gf,
itu yg tercrush dgn u pulak. 
i rasa u pon suka perhatian yg diberi oleh dia.
ala, just be profesional.
angap je dia kawan baik kt tempat keje.
balik rumah, x perlu pikir hal keje dan peel staff terutama dia.
kalau u tangkap cintan, takot diri u yg merana sbb kita sendiri xtahu apa perasaan dia terhadap u.
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kena usaha jgn syok sendiri. takut syok sendiri je. ala takat die ade relation tp kalau bukan jodoh die nak wat cmne. make sure la peragai die okay. die yg cakap die suka u. bru u leh balas cinta si dia. |
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jangan perasan sgt....kalo dah balik mlm mmgla dia akan tanya lebih2 lagi ko dah kategori anak emas kat komoeni tu..pompuan pulak tu
org laki mmg lumrah dia akan caring kat makhluk pompuan. pompuan yg cepat perasan.
layan dia cam biasa, as senior and junior. jgn ade perasaan pon.
unless dia dah break up dgn girlfren dia dah confirm, then baru ko ngorat je dia sungguh sungguh.  |
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Ko ckp terus terang jah. Boleh x jgn layan sy baik2 mcm tu? Kalo sy tersuka awak susah awak nti. Ckp dgn nada gurau2 |
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When I was much younger, mmg ada species yang macam lelaki ni, over caring bla bla..
At that time I thought mmg peel dia overcaring kat sumer orang..
when I am much wiser (but still young kata ko) now, I realised, that fella was over caring towards someone he really cares.
sebab tgk ngan org lain dia layan so-so je... ( we r still colleagues)
but it was too late for me tho. So, if u hv feelings for him, please play ur cards well. Jgn tunjuk over suka sgt, nnt dia lari, kalau dingin sangat pun, lari juga.. jadi macam mana entah.. i think u know better. Sekuan |
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Ada kawan macam ni dengan sorang lelaki. lelaki tu baikkk sangat layan dia.. sanggup bawak kesana sini apa yang perempuan tu nak dia ikut je, walaupun laki tu ada awek. Sampai la kawan sy ni suka sangat2 kat dia. last2 laki tu kata dia anggap perempuan ni kawan je..
perempuan selalu salah paham, kadang ada lelaki memang baik sangat layan perempuan atas dasar kawan. tapi nak buat cane hati perempuan lembut, senang tersentuh hatinya. terjadi la salah paham..
Hopefully, TT tak kena macam ni lah.. dari melarat, terus terang je tanya.. tak pon, elakkan terlalu baik. good luck TT!
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i dont find anything unusual or special in the way he treats you.different guys have different perception or ways on being caring anyway.like someone above had mentioned,jangan layan perasaan dulu ye  |
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Post time 26-1-2015 04:57 PM
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