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Patut mengejar atau patut berhenti berlari?
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cuma terpikir, bila kita diam2 recover sendiri, it is like letting the guy off the hook. In a way, telling him that his attitude is acceptable and thats the standard feature seorang lelaki, take it or leave it.. tak aci lah.. grr :@ |
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Reply 59# bunga_lestari
'why' and 'what if' are two questions with endless answers.. easily get killed in pursuit of answers to these questions  saya setuju kalo saya tanya dia, saya akan bertambah2 sakit. confirmed the bullets are turned to us kan?
3 tahun adelah sangat lama ok.. Allah tau kot saya x mampu tanggung kalo dia blah lepas 3 tahun, tu yg Dia test 9 bulan je..
thanks berkongsi cerita, saya dah tau yang saya tak perlukan jawapan "why" lagi.. setiap kali terserempak, slalunyer mmg saya tgh bergelak2 dgn kawan2.. cuma saya yg jd sakit... harap2 mulai skrg, i can look into his eyes mcm tak penah kenal dia.. |
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pernah terjadi pada kawan saya, dia rapat dgn sorang lelaki ni. lelaki ni kawan saya juga. senang cerita kawan kami. mereka sentiasa lepak bersama, sms selalu. tiba2 saya perasan mereka macam jauh, bila tanya kawan saya tu dia kata dia pun x tahu mengapa lelaki tu menjauh. kawan saya ni plak bila lelaki tu ignore dia, mula2 dia ada tanye juga kenapa jadi macam tu tapi melalui sms saja. lelaki tu x pernah balas. selepas tak balas tu kawan saya pun ignore je lelaki tu sampai la 2, 3 bln selepas tu kami dapat tahu lelaki tu dah ada gf baru. gf baru tu pulak tunangan org. sanggup putus tunang utk bersama lelaki tadi. tapi tu la hubungan diorang pon x lama sb girl tu baik balik dgn tunangnye. |
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Reply 64# peachauto
KARMA !!! haha... |
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pendapat sy la......... benda dah lepas.......so lepaskan la, betul x?
so future mcm mana ? nak jadi baik ke tak nak jadi baik......
pendapat sy lagi.........jadi baik. berkawan mcm biasa, tegur2 borak2
pendapat awk mcm mana ? |
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Reply 64# peachauto
seperti saya kate, mungkin ini adelah standard features kaum lelaki.. suka test market.. 
grass is always greener on the other side.. depan mata tak nampak, yang jauh di mata tu juga yang menarik.. |
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Reply 66# sukasukaje
benda da lepas, mmg kena lepaskan.. cuma dia yang tahu kenapa.. sy boleh speculate je 
i played my game clean.. takde niat nak amik kesempatan pun kat dia.. for future, kalo dah terpaksa bercakap psl keje dlm meeting room, boleh la.. kalo sy nak pegi tegor borak2, mm tak la kot.. 1) sebab takmo sakitkan hati sendiri 2) dah takde ape nak borak pun  |
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Post Last Edit by peachauto at 1-5-2012 13:10
lelaki yang matang dan berani x akan ambil tindakan pengecut dgn lari dan buat bodo. |
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Reply 65# R.A.M.A_mirror
menurut kata lelaki terbabit dia hanya boleh ambil masa 1 hari sahaja untuk melupakan cinta. hebatnye beliyau. |
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Reply 1# thisgirl
Memang ada lelaki yg mcmni....Rimas.....Maybe dlm proses masih mencari....so biar kan lah.....Tak perlu sakit hati....Yg penting belajar pujuk diri... |
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Reply 51# thisgirl
i'll pray for all girls who want to change their life and start to love themselves. to apply all argov's recommendations, you need to be very strong. set in ur mind that you want to have a good life, and nobody can do it for you except you yourself. all the best to you.  |
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Reply 53# R.A.M.A_mirror
Sherry Argov called them as 'principle'. So, I will put a few of them. If I want to put all of them, my comment will be very long. However, bear in mind that these principles are for women to apply. Not for men.
1) In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.
2) You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn't respect your opinion, he won't respect you.
3) When a woman rushes in too quickly, a man will assume she is in love with a "fantasy" or the idea of having a relationship. But if he has to slowly win her over, incrementally, he'll think she's falling in love with who he is.
4) Don't be so blunt, obvious, or available that you come across as having already made up your mind about the guy.
Ok, those are just a little bit of them. I won't put everything. |
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Reply 48# thisgirl
die tak sepadan ngan u...(ayat menyedapkan hati  ) |
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sbnrnyer bergantung kt TT gak
cuma ingat kt ape ustaz i ajar dulu, jodoh,ajal adalah qada n qadar yg tetap dn xkn berubah, sudah ditentukan sjk azali..
so if it meant to be it will be, so terpulang pd TT, kalo TT nk buat donno, dan if he's the one nnt akan ketemu gak, kalo TT push pon maybe lah..tpi selalu dlm perhubungan kene ade ruang, bgi mereke bernafas..
as for me,i hope she's the one.wa dh kejar for 3yrs dah..kejap baik,leh sms,leh kuar sesama, then dier senyap,last2 hp tamat perkhidmatan, then wa cari lgi,baik balik semula,kuar lagi..then snyp,ilang lagik..dh 3kali dah pon..
tpi mmg xprnh declare ape2,and die pn mmg xprnh kopel, bdk lgi,maseh 1st yr kt uitm, even mcm antisocial and tomboyish ckit,xpelah slagi ade kudrat, wa tunggu n mengejar, n berusaha, xpelah, i like her, i like being with her company, its painfull,its heartbreaking,
but that the route i choose, at the end of the day it may or may not pay off, as jodoh in itself is in GOD hands, i could choose the path of least resistence, afterall what will be will be..
hmm,xpelah sabar jer lah |
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Reply 71# adorable10
terima kasih  hati jd sakit bila nampak dia je,kalo x nmpk, tak sakit.. eheh.. yep, semua orang berhak memilih yang terbaik, anggap je lah dia belum jumpa yang dia mahu.. pelan2 pujuk hati sendiri.. semoga cepat sembuh  |
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Hati sakit sebab kita suka dia..Takpe....Kumbang bukan sekor dik non oii...Sabar la...akan dtg yang lebih baguss... |
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Reply 79# adorable10
baiklah kak non.. dik non tgh sabar byk2 la ni..kalo dik non tak sabar, dik non dah 
i love your siggy, btw.. nice one. |
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Reply 72# Knowlee
thank you knowlee.. an eye opener those two books. will keep improving myself so that it will be his loss, not mine  |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 1-5-2012 11:30 AM
xpelah, biarlah perasaan dia tu jadi rahsia dia sorang2.. saya pon da letih nak amik tahu.. takot nnt kalo ditanya, dia jawab "awak yang syok sendiri, saya takde pape pun"(sah2 dia tipu kalo dia ckp cmtu 
